It's hard when there are broken bonds and animosity among family members. Whether you're in the center of it or not, it's not a comfortable place to be. Even if you want to distance yourself from the situation, it may not be the best option for maintaining and building long term relationships with loved ones.
Keep troublesome relationships superficial (for the time being)
Just because you are physically related to someone doesn't necessarily make them your definition of family. We all have family members we're not proud of, so sometimes keeping a healthy distance from these individuals is the best course of action. If you know a family member is toxic and you can't cut them out of your life entirely, the best step to take is to keep the relationship shallow and put effort into the relationships that are healthy instead. You'll be better able to ground yourself when you have to deal with them, and you'll have a support system in place when things go sideways, and you need someone to lean on to get your bearings.
Also, do realize that over time people do and can change. A person who is rigid and inflexible now may soften due to a life-changing event and visa-versa. We all have our struggles to face in life.
Practicing civility with family members is a skill to hone and doesn't require you to like anyone or even love them for that matter. But, it does require you to respect them and appreciate the lessons they may be giving you without your liking. Sometimes that lesson is embracing tolerance and kindness even when it feels like they don't deserve it at the moment.
Make Amends Where Amends Are Needed
If you've created friction with your family, it will be on you to mend the fences. Don't dwell in feelings of overwhelm. Start small and realistic and realize that it may take time and that patience on your end is required. Don't force anything as that may lessen the issues. Small acts of kindness and consistency over time can add up, so people begin to see the changes you are making and that progress is underway. Take comfort in the small victories.
You may need to do some spiritual work on your end to even realize how the connections were degraded over time. You may not even know without looking deep within yourself to discover the answers. Sometimes we are unaware of the role we play in the lives of others and how much stress they put on us until it is too late. Regular readings with an online psychic may help to give you insight and help you with your spiritual development.
If a family member is the one who needs to make amends with another family member, reach out to them in their time of need. Maybe they need someone on their side to believe in them in ways they felt they weren't before. Everyone needs to feel heard, so let them air out what grievances they have and give them perspective on how they can improve the situation or themselves. Try not to come from a place of judgment, but from a place of compassion as none of us are perfect.
If you're the one that someone in the family needs to make amends with, be receptive and open to them coming to you. You don't want to reinforce any negative behaviors, but you also don't want them to feel closed off from you completely.
Get Insights from others
Sometimes the best option is getting advice from a third party who is not a family member or friend. Our Spirit Guides will occasionally guide us to these people as they can see who is trusting and nonjudgmental, but will prefer we solve our problems in our own time. Having a trusted psychic reader at hand is a great way to get guidance in a time of urgent need, especially when it comes to family troubles. With a psychic reading, you can gain valuable insights into intent and get an idea of how events might unfold in the future. Since the future is not set in stone, you can use the visions of real psychics to help you prepare for challenges or perhaps even steer a better outcome.
It may be tempting to get a free psychic reading, but remember you do get what you pay for in the end. You can find many online psychic readings that have high quality. If you are on a budget, you can get a card reading for free by learning how to interpret Tarot yourself. Tapping into your intuition will also help you in your relationship with your family as well.
Take your time and do the research. Go to a psychic network you trust for online psychic readings.