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Fact: 90% of our world population are actively in Victim Mode.
How do you know if you are in Victim Mode?:
Asking why me?
Why does everything good happen to everyone else?
When is it my turn to be happy?
Why doesn't anyone love and accept me?
Why doesn't he/she reciprocate my feelings?
Will I always be lonely?
I just want to be happy, is that asking so much?
Everyone else gets promoted before me, and I have done all the work.
I wish to give up and hide under the covers.
Where did my passion for life go, it just does not exist anymore?
Are the best years of my life gone?
Why do I choose narcissists as romantic partners?
What is wrong with my law of attraction?
If you resonated with any of these Victim Mode Markers, please know that you can rise above being the Victim. My question to you: Do you want to go from survival to thriving? Was that a resounding YES I heard from you? Awesome. Let's do this!
1. Each day you have the ability to shape your reality: Yes, you do! Start your day by clearing out the previous day's inventory. Take a deep breath in through your nose, holding either the outside of the left or right nostril. Hold for three seconds, long, and forcefully exhale through your mouth. The second time, press the outside of the opposite nostril, breathe in through your nose, hold for three seconds (one thousand one, one thousand two, one thousand three, slow count), exhale fully through your mouth. The Third time, press outside on the opposite nostril from the second breath, breathe in through your nose, count the slow three and hold, now fully exhale through your mouth. On the last exhale, visualize yourself shiny, clean, and fresh from the inside out and have the exhale more pronounced.
2. What are your goals for the day: Set aside the laundry list of things that you need to accomplish. What are YOU doing TODAY to reach a personal benchmark and feed your dreams and goals? Spend 5 minutes going ahead and embrace that feeling of having invested in yourself.
3. Where is the bulk of your thinking throughout the day?: Your internal dialogue plays a huge role in staying in Victim Mode. When you find yourself being critical of you, replace it with something affirming and confidence-building. For example, How silly of me to miss the exit, I must have driven this route 1000 times! Erase and Replace: I must have a lot on my mind today. I will simply take another route. Keep track initially of how many times you erase and replace throughout the day. Celebrate each one! You are doing well. Congratulations!
4. Align yourself with successful people: Take a look at your friend and colleague pool. Who is swimming with you? Are they successful? Confident? Kind? Leaders in their field? Ethical and honest? Do they seem to exceed their goals and attract good fortune? Now, this is the toughest part, take a step back, really look at whom you have in your life. For every seven successful people, you can have one person that is struggling, needy, uncertain, and always seems to find misfortune. 1 out of 7 that is quite a ratio! So even with seven healthy, positive, successful, and abundant alliances, any more than the one person in Victim Mode can start to have a cynical tug on the entire group. This is your wake up call! This is the new start you have been looking for, now time to commit to you and to do the work. It is work, and the more you engage, the higher the results you will yield in your life. You will know that the changes you are making have taken root when you start to attract more of the fortune 500 energy and are being asked to step into roles or alliances that stretch your boundaries. Voila!
We have personal evolution and growth. It gets better and better with time. The first 24 - 30 days are critical to changing, so stay the course.
I know you can do this, I can see the spark of success and abundance within you.
Well done, my friend, you are amazing! I love you, and I believe in you.
Please contact me if I can be of support to you. It is my pleasure to help you become the best version of you, bringing you clear Spirit-filled insight.
In Divine Truth and Love,
Psychic Shira
My name is Shira, and I am a psychic medium and clairvoyant, offering a variety of tools such as tarot readings for all kinds of relationships psychic online readings. Also, I love to provide you insights into your life's purpose and help you reach your full potential with online psychic reading. I am here for you as a psychic reader for phone, chat, text, or message. Whatever is most convenient for you!