5 Crucial Steps To Getting Over Your Ex with the Help of a Psychic

When we go through a breakup, it can be hard to move forward for a time. It's okay to grieve the loss of a relationship. Grieving is a healthy expression to reflect on what is gone and meant so much to you. Not every relationship is expected to last forever, but we also aren't meant to dwell on a relationship that wasn't meant to last. Here are five steps to help you move forward instead of getting stuck in your grief.

Stop following them on social media.

It can't be said enough about the damage you can do to yourself if you continue to follow your ex's life on social media. It can be obsessive and self-destructive. When you and are ex have parted ways, make sure to do the same in social media. Those ties aren't just symbolic connections. There is an energetic cord connecting through social media accounts. Cut the cord and end those ties! It will both do you a world of spiritual good, and you will feel the release!

At first, it may feel tough as you will have mixed emotions. A part of you will want to keep tabs on them but don't give in to this temptation. Doing this is not healthy, even if you eventually get back together. If you parted ways, it means that either you are not intended to be together or that you both need to grow emotionally and spiritually. You can't improve yourself if you keep holding on to old patterns and old feelings. Let it go and let it be, and new opportunities will come to unfold.

You may even find it necessary to block them for a while as well, so you don't feel the temptation yourself. Blocking isn't necessarily a thing we do out of dislike or hate, but an act we do as a healthy boundary being placed on the both of us so we may move on to what serves us best. When we do this type of blocking, it comes out of a place of letting go and releasing. Letting people go is an act of love.

Stop comparing yourself to their new partner.

If your ex has started to move on and is with someone else, you may feel the need to compare yourself to who they are with now. This is even harder not to do when the person they are with is the person they left you for to be with instead. You're going to want to know how they are better and how they are worse. In the end, it doesn't matter.

You can't compare yourself to someone else your ex is with now. Why? Because your ex isn't the same person they were when they were with you. Their vibration has changed, and so has yours.

When we compare our worth, we lessen ours. All of us are unique and express that in different ways. No one person is better than another. In our material world, we tend to forget this. We are all human beings having a human experience.

When we feel envy, we deny who we are because we are not accepting who we are. The only reason to compare is that you haven't let go, and you want to be that partner. But, you are not them. You are you, and you deserve better than being trapped in old patterns that don't work for you.

Stop obsessing over the past.

What's happened, happened. You can't go back and change it. Obsessing over events that lead to the eventual break up will not help either of you. It is one thing to reflect and take in the lessons you've learned, figure out ways you can grow from it, but it's an entirely unhealthy thing when you try and replay the events in your mind to see if doing them a different way could have ended up in results more to your liking.

Life happens. We live, we learn, we move on. Don't keep yourself trapped in the memories of once what was as it is no longer. Let it go, or those feelings and emotions will fester and become negative energy caught within you. If those emotions become too embedded with you, then you may have to reach out to a real psychic who offers energy healing from some assistance.

Move through your emotions, feelings, and release them.

Allow yourself to feel whatever you are feeling without judgment and without replaying them. Let them flow, come and go, like a breeze passing by. You are allowed to be sad, angry, hurt, depressed. Just don't allow those emotions to overwhelm you, so you become engulfed in them and don't see anything else.

During your post-breakup time, take time to do something creative and productive to work out your emotions. It will help you process what has happened. Learn to be a tarot card reader so you can give yourself readings. It can help you get in touch with your higher self and Spirit Guides, who will support you. You can also reach out to psychic sources and find a psychic keen on helping you with an online psychic reading as well. There are always psychics online willing to help you with your issues.

Go out and live a little.

Go out and feel some joy! Don't stay home, stuck, and unhappy. You will regret not living your life if you are spending it sulking and filled with regrets. We all make mistakes. Go out and make some more! Learn and grow and seize the day. Plan a weekend trip with a friend or do some traveling by yourself. Who knows … maybe you will meet the person you are destined to be with there!