6 Compassionate Keys In Dealing with Bullying and How to Protect Your Inner Psychic
Whether it's your child at school or a coworker at work, bullying is never a fun thing to handle. It can create an emotional rollercoaster when it keeps happening with no end in sight. Sometimes the most challenging people who come into our lives do so so that we can experience growth. This growth can be painful as well as enlightening. Many psychic sources can help you work your way through this crisis.
We need to be open to receive the unexpected gifts of each of these experiences. Sometimes that gift is teaching us to have more compassion. Other times, it's showing us endurance and perseverance. Whatever it is, be open to it and make sure to take care of yourself during this hardship.
Here are six compassionate keys in dealing with bullying:
We are all human.
We are all human beings having a human experience, and that is sometimes hard to remember when someone is mean to us or someone we love. Instinctively, we may react with anger and other strong emotions. This isn't the only way to respond. We can choose to step back and get some perspective. Allow yourselves some time to process, get space, and let the other person do the same. We all make mistakes and say things we regret so we need to remember that from time to time
Not everyone can manage their emotions.
Some of us are more hot-headed than others, and some are not very good at expressing their emotions. When we don't have the best role models growing up, then we tend to emanate bad behavior as children and as adults. Keep this in mind. We can't all be cool-headed, so sometimes we have to take the higher road when others can't.
There are also people struggling with mental health and neurological issues that may make them seem unfriendly at times. These people do need our compassion because they may not have the social skills to make friends in life and don't understand how to treat others quickly. The best way to deal with someone who you expect might be like this is to simply not offer any judgment. Hold the line and show kindness.
Some of us have a difficult family life.
When people live with others who are abusive to them, the person being abused will take our stress out on other people. It happens. It's not pretty, but it's a reaction to what they are experiencing. They're trying to process what is happening with them and go about it awfully. This is where you don't take what they are doing personally, but you also might want to steer clear as best you can. Be compassionate in your distance, though take care of yourself and your family.
If you feel you are strong enough and good enough with communicating, you can try and reach out to this person. Go in with no expectations. Sometimes just the offer and acknowledgment that they are hurting can be the catalyst for change years later. We never know how much our lives can touch another person when we offer them kindness, and sometimes we may never know.
We have no idea what they are going through right now.
Other people's lives are often a mystery to us. We may know some things about them, but we will never know all, and we most certainly will not know their past. If they had had a hard life before you met them, you would not know that unless they tell you. Of course, you might suspect and deduce by how they appear and how they behave. But, you never really know, and that is important to remember.
Sometimes the most put-together looking person is the one who is falling apart and taking it out on everyone.
Sometimes bullying is a cry for help.
Bullying is often a knee jerk reaction to what is happening to us. It is a cry for help. How do we interpret the call? We listen deeply as to what they are trying to do to our loved ones and us. How is what they are doing mirror what might be happening (or have happened) to them?
Take a step back if you can and see if you can help them with seeking professional help. If it's a child, see if you can speak with the teachers or the parents to get some kind of resolution and see if the heart of the matter can be addressed. Speak to your child about what they might have noticed about their behavior, including the moments that lead up to what occurred. If the person is a coworker, speak with your boss or your coworkers about what is happening. Maybe they have experienced similar instances. Sometimes issues can be resolved peacefully without having to get too involved with changing anyone's job.
For some, bullying is how they show affection.
If we are shown that bullying is how we love our loved ones, we will not show affection to others in a healthy manner. When this happens, there needs to be a conversation happening about how this is not appropriate behavior and discuss ways this can change. Counseling might be required if the person who is bullying wants to change. If not, it might be time to consider not being in a friendship or relationship with this person. It would help if you showed them you are worthy of being treated with respect and that they are capable of treating you with respect in return.
At the end of the day, we all deal with bullying at some point in our lives. It's hard when it happens to our children and more perplexing when it occurs in the office. When you feel discouraged about the actions of others, consider reaching out to real psychics for psychic online readings for better insights and guidance. A psychic's ability to tap into our situation can help provide you with the information you need to make informed decisions about how to best manage the situation. They may even be able to assist with energy healing to remove any negativity you are developing in response to what you and your loved ones are experiencing. Find a psychic keen on helping you deal with your family crisis.