Whether you're celebrating Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or Christmas this year, there are specific questions you should ask your psychic when getting a holiday tarot reading that can help you with your relationships and life purpose.
For most of our holidays, we will spend time with our family and friends and spend an equal amount of time reflecting on our lives. Whatever holiday we're celebrating, we celebrate our spirituality, our faith, and our ancestors. All holidays during this time of year are about honoring our ancestral lineage and what got us from there to here.
When working with psychic readers, you can ask them to do specific tarot spreads pertaining to your spiritual beliefs. The Tree of Life Spread can be used by anyone, but is especially relevant to those who practice Judaism. Kwanzaa has a seven-card tarot spread that honors each of the seven principles. For Christmas, most will either do a star or tree-shaped spread depending on whether you get your tarot reading on the eve of Christmas or the day of Christmas.
Each of these tarot spreads offers an opportunity for you to focus on specific issues that you may be seeking guidance on in the present. Still, we have included here are seven questions to ask yourself before your psychic tarot reading. Take time to consider these questions and journal about them before and after your online tarot reading.
In what ways has this year changed me from the last time I celebrated this holiday?
Every time we reflect on our lives, we begin to see the good and bad ways we have transformed and whether or not we want to consider the impact that has made on us and others in our lives. Holidays are an excellent time to re-examine how our lives have changed since we celebrated a family holiday together. It allows us to be filled with gratitude or deal with heavy and complex emotions stemming from loss and grief.
Moving forward, what can I do to be a better version of myself?
Asking yourself what you can improve in yourself as a holiday approach is a reminder that we all need to do good in the world and that good starts within. The key to this is, to be honest, but not brutally honest. Give yourself compassion first, as we tend to be our own worst critics. You may also want to reflect on how your best version of yourself would affect those around you.
What is the status of all my relationships with others?
Sometimes we get so caught up in the busyness of our lives and our melodramatic thoughts that we forget about the wellbeing of our relationships. We can easily take things for granted, and the holidays are a perfect time to reassess and consider our relationships with our friends and family. You may notice some relationships have grown closer while some have grown further apart. This is a natural part of life, but ask yourself if this is what you want and if not, make a plan to shift some of those relationship statuses to one of your preferences.
How does the way I love myself affect how I love other people?
This question is vital in our relationships with others, and we can see this play out during family holiday gatherings. Take time to sit with yourself and ask this question wholeheartedly. Often, we don't believe our hatred towards others stems from our unresolved hatred of ourselves. Show yourself kindness and compassion and see how that affects the world around you. You will notice that it can shift your energy in your tarot reading if you work on this question beforehand.
How can I bring more love into my life and the world?
Getting in touch with the answer to this question can help you set the intentions for your holiday tarot card spread reading. Whether you're looking for a Tree of Life Spread, a Kwanzaa Spread, or a Christmas Star Spread, understanding how you can bring more love into your life and the Universe will connect you to the vibration of love. The Universe will supply you with specific answers and guidance to make you reflect and inspire you to make positive changes in your life.
In what ways do my boundaries positively and negatively impact my life?
With this question, you will find that it helps direct your tarot card reading to clarify how people perceive you and what you might want to change. Understanding the health of our personal boundaries allows us to realize if we're being too easy or too hard on our loved ones. There are times for walls, time for space, and time for openness. A Holiday Tarot Spread of any kind can help guide how well you are doing in this area. This is a question you will want to journal about before and after your tarot reading.
What brings me joy?
Asking yourself this question will bring a lot of clarity and pull you into your inner truth. Be prepared to experience both positive and negative emotions as you explore this question, and you may possibly decide to make dramatic changes as a result of understanding the answers. Part of this question is knowing what doesn't bring you joy as that will remove activities or people causing you unhappiness.
Conclusion
Having a Holiday Tarot Card Reading with your favorite tarot card readers can help clarify the past, present, and future. Taking the time to step back and enjoy a Holiday Tarot Spread can help reconnect you to your spirituality and your loved ones through reflection, contemplation, and discovery for what lies ahead.