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Psychic Shira

Welcome. The vision for this Blog is to allow an opportunity for our Psychic Advisors to offer helpful guidance to improve your present and future life. This forum is also an excellent way to be introduced to an advisor if you have not had the opportunity to experience their services.


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Shira has been reading for 26 years, and is Certified in Energy Healing and Distance Healing Techniques.
She was trained in intuitive readings, beginning her path as an intuitive, as a teenager when she realized that not everyone saw, felt, or experienced the world the way she did.
Shira is Clairsentient, Clairaudient, and Clairvoyant, and believes that each of us is here to contribute to the greater good. Her empathic ability to see to the heart of the matter has aided her in bringing clarity to her clients for many years. She utilized her intuitive abilities as a Licensed Massage Therapist for 15 years, and believes in the body-mind-spirit connection. It is her pleasure to assist in bring you clarity and compassionate objectivity with your beautifully evolving life.


Valentine's Day Approaches: Cueing Expectations.

Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my blog for new viewers as well as returning readers.  It is a joy to share this space with you.Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing!

Valentine's Day is approaching, and energy is running high if you are hoping to reunite with an ex, move forward into an engagement, looking at starting a family together, and wanting a super romantic Valentine's Day recognition from your beloved.

You have a script in your mind for what you want and expect to happen, what you want and feel that you need to hear to feel that your romantic partner understands you, and even abrupt changes that you hope will occur to heal the tension in your relationship.

There is no magic pill, but there is a principal that does make for a healthy and long-term romantic pairing.  In the years that I have been doing this work, and in talking to my parents, aunts and uncles over the years, all married at least 50 years (and to the same person!), I have gathered pearls of wisdom which have helped me in my work.
They shared this with me:

Be 100% committed to each other.  Regardless of what is happening in your lives, your commitment is to each other.  None of them ever cheated, strayed, or spoke badly of the other, but remained in a committed state, even when they felt they had fallen out of love.  Fortunately this did not happen with both people at the same time.  Rarely was the distribution even.  They hung in there, though, and when other couples were divorcing, they fell in love again and again. They survived loss, financial issues, parenthood, and through it all, they were determined to stay together and make the best of it.  (please note that abusive relationships are different and not at all acceptable).

They learned to laugh and play together as a couple and as a family, building positive memories whenever possible.

When they did have feelings for other people, they held their commitment higher than the feeling, for their marriages were not based on feeling, but on a practical foundation:


Not all their Valentine's Days, Wedding Anniversaries, and holidays were over-the-top romantic, but there were meaningful to them.

They were responsible for their own happiness, and took ownership for their lives.

They accepted their husband//wife for their strengths and short comings.

They learned how to fight fair, sticking to the issue at hand and not bringing up old wrongs.

They never went to bed angry.

They supported each other, even when they did not understand what the other was going through.

They kept their word, and refrained from name calling, blame, shame, and guilt.

They held hands, kissed, and hugged.

They woke up 100% committed to each other and went to bed 100% committed to each other.


To have a satisfying a healthy long-term romantic relationship, it takes effort by both people consistently.  Real love is unconditional and is not based in "feeling in love" but in having committed to love one another.  

IF YOU FIND YOURSELF BEING THE ONLY ONE WORKING IN THE RELATIONSHIP, and no matter what you do, you cannot get our romantic partner to put in the effort, it may be time to walk away so you can meet someone that will.  It is better to be single than to be in a relationship, and live a single life.

Communication is of course, important, but it is when your words and actions are in alignment that you know you have a keeper.

Happily ever after becomes, committed for the rest of our lives.

Have enough dignity to walk away from abusive relationships, and to get the help you need to reset your sense of self before walking into the next relationship. You are very likely to attract this kind of person again if you jump right into another relationship for fear of being alone.  Learn from your past, take the wisdom from it. Please do so especially if there are children involved, they are watching and learning from you about their future relationships.

I hope that you each have met the one that will ride out the waves together, committed to the waves that life can bring and to making this journey together.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Dead End Questions

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It is a pleasure to connect with each of you!  Welcome to my blog whether this is your first time, or you are a returning reader.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

Let's take a look at dead end questions and thinking:

I am sure that each of us has  a friend that calls with the same questions. What's wrong with me?  Why won't he/she text me back?  Why is she/he so mean to me?  Why does he/she always yell at me?  What could I have done differently?  How can I change things here?  What does she/he like about me?  When will he/she respect me?  How did she/he feel about what I said?  Why did he/she feel this way?  Will they ever change?  Should I stay in this relationship or leave?  Do you see how badly I am treated?

Chances are, you do not always pick up the phone when they call for the energy they bring is D R A M A.  This type of encounter can be and often is draining to everyone within earshot.  You want to be there to love and support, but you can only process the connection with them for a certain amount of time.  I have a wonderful Aunt, and when she calls, and I answer, I can anticipate being on the phone with her for two hours, with her doing most of the talking.  I mindfully call her when I do have blocks of time, to let her know that I love her, care about her, and am here for her.  But only if I really have the time to do so.  

I am committed to a each of you in our readings, and in offering a positive, clear, honest, and insightful consultation.  In my years of experience, here are a few questions that make your reading productive.

What can I do to be more confident and stand my ground?

What are my inherent gifts?

What challenges are present in my life, and how do I clear them?

Am I connected to my soul's purpose?

Do I have any toxic relationships in my life?

How do I turn this situation around and improve communication?

Is it to my benefit to walk away or to invest more of my time and energy?

Questions that are non-productive:

Why does he/she always do that?

How did she/he feel when I said that?

What will they say if I share how I am feeling? How will they feel about what I say?

Will they finally take ownership for always hurting me?

Should I keep texting them?  If so, when will they finally respond?

What does she/he like about me?

How am I different than other people they have dated?

Why aren't they proposing sooner? (the energy of I want it NOW!)

Another category of readings is Rapid Fire:

A Rapid Fire Reading is when you ask questions quickly, and want a quick, short response.  Asking Rapid Fire Questions can actually create the circumstances of you asking the same question numerous times as you have already forgotten the answer you received.  If you do prefer this format, please do ask for a recorded session so you can review the reading at a later date to fill in the gaps and recall the insights you received from your psychic.  Please ask one question at a time, rather than two or three, where you might have forgotten the answer to the question.  

I have a friend whom is a gifted reader and does offer Rapid Fire Readings once a week for clients that prefer that format.  Generally speaking, it takes the mind a moment to process the information received, unless you are someone with a extremely high IQ with the ability to focus and retain the response.  

Timelines and Freewill:

When asking for a timeline, realize that freewill can and does change the outcome.  Each of us has freewill, and even the most minuscule choice can impact a timeline.  One small step away from the direction in which we are walking can change things dramatically down the line.  Timelines, unless you are working with a banking or pragmatic business aspect, are malleable and subject to change.  Think of it this way:  Let's say you have $50 in your wallet, and your plan is to buy groceries with this money.  You have the right amount of cash to meet your shopping list.  Along the way, you see something that your spouse would like as a gift, and you spend part of the $50 on the present.  Now you have to cut something from your list, as you have less cash than you anticipated. Timelines are the same way, for time is a currency, and how we use that time does make a difference in future outcomes.

You are amazing, and deserve the healing answers that await you. I am excited to connect with you and to have a productive, loving, empathetic, and honest informational session with you.  Your feelings and perspective are of the utmost importance!

Thank you for this time together.  I look forward to sharing this blog space again with you soon.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Relationship Uncertainty: Unable to Commit

​Bright Greetings,

It is a joy to connect to each of you. Welcome to my blog for first timers and returning readers.Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

Usually I write about being the one wanting the relationship and how to improve communication, and connect more deeply.

Today I want to talk to those whom are dating someone, in a relationship, or seeing someone other than their spouse or committed partner.

The majority of my romantic calls come from people wondering what is wrong with them, why they are not receiving a marriage proposal or having it accepted, why their boyfriend/girlfriend disappears for days/ weeks/months at at time, and people that are just plain frustrated and hurt. The levels of rejection, and heartache they experience is devastating. They wake up to it, they go to bed with it, all the while wondering: When will things with us turn around?

My heart goes out to you if you are in this situation. Please know that you are loved and cherished, you deserve to be loved fully, unconditionally, and to have a rich and abundant life.

If you are not really feeling a long term future with the person with whom you are involved and you have been seeing each other for a year or more, it is time to think about how they are feeling. While life is not fair, I encourage you to contemplate how your romantic partner may be feeling staying in a stagnant relationship that is not really going anywhere. They may be hoping for marriage, or if you are married, wanting to start a family.

Look at the real reasons that you do not want to commit to them:

Are you afraid to commit due to a bad dating history or divorce?

Do you not really want to settle down with them in a long term relationship?

Are they Miss or Mister Right Now versus Right?

Are you married or in a serious committed relationship and they are a temporary playmate or distraction from your relationship that is failing?

Is this an office or situational romance?

Are you seeing someone who is also married or in a committed relationship, considered a safe relationship as it cannot go anywhere?

Please know, that the person you are seeing may have developed long term feelings for you and genuinely be in love with you. Consider their vantage point, and how badly it must be hurting them to go week by week, month by month, or year by year with no indicator or hope of having their commitment nor love reciprocated. They are hurting badly, and deserve someone that will be 100% in as a romantic partner in their lives. If you are dating someone that wants marriage and kids, the clock is ticking for them, and you are just not feeling it, please consider having an honest and loving conversation. Offer them closure and please let them know that it is not them, that it really IS you.

Here are some of the things people need to hear for real closure: Please share this with them in person, not in a text or phone call!

I apologize for hurting you.

I apologize for not having given you the time and attention you deserve.

You are amazing, and I want to thank you for our time together. I cannot offer a commitment to you, and I want you to be free to meet the right person so you can have marriage and family.

I was wrong to cheat on you, and I know I cannot make it up to you. Please forgive me if you can, and if you cannot, I fully accept and understand this.

If they ask what they could have done better or to get you to commit please let them know that they are wonderful, and that you are the one that is not feeling the long term commitment, that there is nothing they could have change or done better. They will need a great deal of reassurance from you in this parting, and if they do get angry or upset, please try to see their side of it and imagine how you would feel if the roles were reversed.

BE SINCERE in what you say, for they are already in a sensitized state, and will need time to heal. Cut ties, and do not try to be friends. Stop texting and calling and giving them false hope, Block their number and email if you have to, and block them from social media, so they cannot see how you have moved on with your life. I know this sounds harsh, but it helps to dissolve the cords between you with more grace and kindness.

One of the biggest issues in a break up is watching the person that you have loved moving forward in their lives by dating new people or connecting with others romantically. In my work I encourage people to stay away from looking at their exes social media as it can slow down the healing process for them.

It is okay if you are not feeling 100% committed, some people are in our lives for a short period of time, or for forever.

If this is a work affair or relationship, please include in your talk agreements regarding how you will act towards each other in the workplace. Agree to keep it professional, and simply that. Striving to be friends may not be realistic, so realize that you have to be the one to have the clear and clean boundary.

And last but not least:

When you do date again, please be clear from the beginning with your intentions. Refrain from misleading your new romantic interest if you want to keep it casual. If you DO feel that you might want more, do not share this until you know 1005 that is how you feel.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3..

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The Algorithm of Abundance

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my blog for first timers and returning readers.  Thank you for sharing this time together,  for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

An algorithm is a set of guidelines, that when adhered to, create a predictable pattern.  This term was first applied to computer technology, but science has found that algorithms include patterns of human behavior.  So moving this idea forward, there is an algorithm for abundance.  Abundance in all facets of life.

Have you ever met the person that seems to attract goodness and success.  Money comes easily to them, and they seem to master aspects of life efforlessly. They have the abundance of success and have worked through and cleared their blockages. I personally believe that the gift of our free will gives us the tool that we need to rise to the highest level of realization.  

Too often you and I sabotage ourselves early in the game.  A significant percentage of my work is pertaining to career growth.  I work with preparing for interviews, and fine tuning resumes.  I recently worked with a gifted young woman (she has given me permission to share this with you) that had been accepted into an elite training internship and program.  Part of this program is interviewing with industry related companies, for the purpose of being hired into apprenticeship for executive positions. The first interview, she was so nervous that she was told immediately by human resources that she would not be passed forward to the next level.  She had a second interview the next week, and even though she was prepared, she found herself answering the questions inappropriately.  The third interview, she called me and asked if she and I could look at what had happened in the prior two opportunities.  This is what emerged: within 4 minutes of her interview, she had successfully sabotaged herself, by sidestepping the questions, rather than answering them  directly as the interviewers requested.  She was able to recognize the the blockages to abundance, and aced the third interview, and is moving forward towards her career goals.  It took an absolutely honest assessment for her to realize that her fear of moving forward into the unknown had caused her to subconsciously deter her achievement.  The fear of not only moving forward, but moving to another state scared her.  That "aha" moment helped to awaken her thriving versus surviving self.

Now mind you, there is much more to the process than this, with recognition being the beginning of healing and change.  

When you find a limiting belief, you can replace it with an abundance based reality.  A limiting belief is based on self worth (do I deserve this?  Why would they choose me?  What will happen if I become successful and then fall flat on my face again?) .  So much of this programming is set in place by the age of 5.  Everything that we see and hear pertaining to abundance is hard wired into our minds at this early age.

When you notice a pattern of goals that do not seem to come to fruition, this is an abundance limit, and one that you can clear!  You can have loving and happy romantic relationships, you can have a career that you love and get paid what you are worth, you can have unlimited abundance!  

Face the limiting belief head on, and replace it with what you DO want in your life.  This is one reason that I advocate a daily meditation practice.  Creating space where you can connect to the programming, replace it, and move forward into an algorithm of success.

If you have would like assistance, please give me or one of the other gifted psychics at Meet Your Psychic.  We are delighted to help you see that you can have a much happier and brighter life.

Thank you for sharing this time together,

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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The Enigma of Romance

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Welcome to my blog for both my subscribers and first time participants.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.  It is my joy to create this healing space for each of us.

I want to talk about the enigma of romance, and the challenges in growing a romantic relationship.  All to often you cannot read where your romantic interest is in the process of coupling.  Communication and trust are the top two categories that most couples have between them. 

If you are a communicator, and your romantic interest is less inclined to share their feelings, this is a recipe for frustration and discouragement.

You want to know how they feel about you!  They may show their feelings (action) versus sharing them verbally with you.  Showing up to help you with a flat tire, taking you to doctor's appointments, buying you flowers for no reason, these are all affirmations that you are loved and cherished.

It is not at all unusual to have someone that is verbal paired with someone that demonstrates love through action.  The irony is that both want to receive the currency they offer.

Those that are action oriented feel that words are simply that, unless they see ACTION behind the words, it does not have a great deal of meaning for them.

If you are a communicator, you may see the action, but you want the WORDS.  You want the I Love You, the cards, the emails, text messages, phone calls, facetime, and social media validation (as in him/her liking your posts and tagging you). Even the frequency of communication is important to you, and very likely you and your love have different values.( One may feel that checking in once a day is great, the other 3-4 times daily)

You are both wanting to be perceived, and yet








Recognizing each other's way of expressing love is key.  If you are only willing to accept it one way, then you are missing out on the validation from them that you are seeking. You want to feel that you are important to them, and that their intentions for a loving relationship is present.

I have a dear friend (whom has given me permission to share this) and she has a wonderful husband.  She is a communicator, loves sharing feelings with friends and family and listening to theirs. She is bright, bubbly, engaging, and loves people.  Her husband is a doer, he loves helping people whether it is repairing their cars, fixing a roof, taking care of a leaky sink, or running an errand.  It took some time after they were married for both of them to discover the importance of acknowledging each other's way of expressing love.

Once they did, though, things were dramatically better in the marriage.  It took going to a qualified marriage counselor to help them see that they were expressing caring each day, and to appreciate what they each gave so unconditionally.

If you are not getting anything back from your romantic interest despite all that you are doing giving more will not alleviate the problem.  Taking a step back, and take your love life away from the microscope!  Examining anything TOO closely takes away objectivity and perspective, and will be anxiety inducing. As challenging as it may be to take a step back, make the determination that you will. Step away from looking at their social media, stop checking their cell phones for last calls and text messages, stop asking friends and family about them, and give some breathing room so you can see clearly. Stop over texting and messaging hoping they will respond to you.  In most cases, if you send more than three messages, they will consolidate the answer into one message.  The amount of time that you and I waste on messaging and texting is significant!  It is better for you, energetically,  to connect face-to-face, and have organic communications.

If in giving the situation breathing room, they respond, then you know that they were feeling a bit smothered and micromanaged.

If they do not step up, perhaps it is time to walk away from investing energy into this relationship.  Remember, giving more does not mean that they will step up and get involved. Worse yet, they may start blocking you on their phone, email, and social media to get you to stop.This is a clear signal, and one that I would take seriously.  Please do not contact their friends and family if you cannot get them, and let things cool down.

It takes courage to give space when you are feeling anxious, but your uncertainty will start to alleviate when you change your focus.  Work on yourself, and managing your life to the best of your ability versus remotely trying to manage that of your romantic interest.  Be invested in your personal growth, and do step outside yourself and give back to your community to feed your soul.

So much pain can be averted if you follow this simple action:

Be the best version of yourself and invested in your personal growth. The right people will be in your life, love, and appreciate you.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  

I love you and I believe in you.

Please contact myself or one of the other gifted readers at Meet Your Psychic if you are in need of encouragement, support, and clarity.  It is a joy to connect with you and to be part of your journey.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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The Importance of Boundaries

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to our healing space.  It is a joy to connect with each of you today.  Welcome if this is your first time to my blog, and welcome back to my subscribers.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing!

I want to talk with you about the importance of boundaries.  I work with animals and their owners (more the owners!) on having healthy boundaries from a canine behaviorist perspective.  I realized when I was going through the dog training courses, that I was more of a behaviorist as I resonated more with the neuroscience versus basic training methodologies.  One of the issues with anxious, territorial dogs is teaching healthy boundaries. When a dog sits on your feet, leans into you, or is wreaking havoc with your slumber, it is more often than not, a boundary issue.  It is contingent upon you, as the owner, to set the boundary that is you, and that of your beloved canine.  You are the first one through the door to go out or enter a room, and you give consent for them to greet people.  There are strategies, as a behaviorist, that I employ to ensure a happy and healthy dog.

This is a lesson that easily translates into the human perspective, for studies have shown that dogs are capable of empathy and have more in common with humans that previously thought.

If you find yourself feeling exhausted after being with someone, and this is consistently occurring: 

Think of this as someone leaning onto/into you the whole time that you are together, and no matter what you do or say, you cannot get breathing room and personal space.  In canine behavior, they will lean onto you as a sign of ownership or marking you, "this human is mine." and offers a non-verbal cue to any other animals in that situation.  As humans we do this as well.  When you and I are with our mates, and someone is flirting with them, laying a hand on their shoulder, coming up and holding hands, placing our arms around them, kissing them, these are all ways that you and I say "he/she is mine!  back off!"  You are pushing the inappropriate attention away by marking your territory.

Hopefully your mate complies as well, and reciprocates the attention to you, ensuring that the person being overly engaged will get the hint and back off. Way off!

When you have someone that is leaning into you, and it is unwanted attention, you can start to feel smothered, drained, and have the desire to flee their company.  It is no wonder for they are pressing their energy field into yours and taking your energy.  I have people in my life that I have to see that are leaners.  They close in and make inquiries that cross healthy boundaries.  They ask about my work, which I tell them I cannot discuss in other than general terms (as in what I do, but nothing more). They pose religious questions in the context of a family gathering, knowing  there is a diverse representation of belief systems at the table.  They are my in-laws and I will find a reason to excuse myself, even washing all the dinner dishes, to reclaim a healthy boundary.  Should they persist, I will be direct and share that I do not talk religion or politics at family gatherings, occasions, or outings.  This has take several years for me to establish a healthy boundary with them, but I have been successful.  I hold loving space for them, as I do deeply care for them.  I will not/do not leave room for them to judge, criticize, and try to hook into my energy in unhealthy ways.  I realize that they do not know, on a conscious level, what they are doing, and do see that they feel they are well-intentioned.  I find ways to create meaningful conversation, with the intent of building love and trust between us.  I act versus react.

Quite often the worst culprits are found in your family and the workplace, two places where the necessity to set a firm boundary are required.  If you are a people pleaser, it can be tricky, as you want to be liked,  It is unrealistic that everyone will like you and get you.  Be selective about whom you let into your inner circle, and that it is okay for them to earn your trust.  You want people in your life that are loyal, faithful, truthful, kind, and keep their promises.  A real friend keeps what you say between the two of you, refrains from participating in gossip, and lives an impeccable life.  

Permitting yourself to be drawn into other people's dramas, and feeling that you have to choose a side, is also a huge source of having your energy drained.  If you notice, after talking to someone that has just gone through a bad divorce, break up, dire financial straits, that you feel fatigued.  They have dumped their negative energy into your space, and walked away feeling lighter.  This is 90% an unconscious act, a clear 10% are masters of manipulating circumstances in their favor, with plans of taking advantage of you in the future.  Retain your healthy boundary and learn the power of NO.  Not even "no, thank you" but a firm and unwavering NO.  

If you find yourself with someone that wants you to respond a specific way, this can also be tricky terrain.  They will demand that you say what they need to hear to feel better, even to the extent of having some sort of emotional break down, making you the scapegoat for their unhappiness.  This is a situation to leave if you can, immediately.  Take charge of your space, your boundary, and stop it in it's tracks!  If they do it once, they will do it repeatedly.  This is exceptionally draining, and you will find that you will do anything necessary to avoid spending time with them.

Spend time with people that are loving, positive, and joyfully engaged with their lives:

Make these relationships and connections a priority!  Give your time and energy over to these positive, unconditional, and lovingly reciprocal liaisons.  This will help you to consistently reinforce your healthy boundary, and you will feel ENERGIZED!  

Thank you for sharing this time together.  

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Truth and Love, 

Shira <3

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Navigating a Toxic Work Environment

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my blog, I am Psychic Shira and it is a genuine joy to connect with each of you.  Thank you for liking, subscribing, and sharing!

I get a plethora of call pertaining to  toxic work environments.  Helicopter bosses, a gossiping work culture, being held back from promotion due to prejudice, and being left out of the communication loop.  I have been assisting people regarding workplace issues for many years, and have witnessed the power each of you has to transform a toxic culture.

All too often, even with the humanist movement in business, you will find yourself on the receiving end of blame for something in which you had no part.  If you find yourself in the position of the corporate scapegoat, here are a few things you can do to be prepared to defend yourself.  I believe in preventative measures, so better safe than sorry:

1.  Document everything and keep it factual not emotional:  If you are coming from an emotional tangent, you are likely to look guilty for something that you had no part in, or for something that another employee in your division was assigned to complete.  Write down a) Who was involved b)time and date stamp c) details such as what resources were to have been utilized d) copies of any emails or memos that clear your name e) proof that you completed the portion that you were assigned in a timely manner and according to policy. f)a a record of any client or customer interactions.

2.  Do not share your documentation with anyone, including it's existence:  Keep it to yourself, and someplace where it is safe from prying hands and eyes. Having a  work journal in your personal email account that is ongoing is a great way to secure your data.  Never share your passwords with anyone from the workplace for your personal email records.

3.  Keep your personal life private:  Do not share anything from your home situation, keep it about work. Period.  Which leads to our next point.

4.  Dual relationships:  Realize that when you are friends AND work together that there can be leakage from one realm to the next.  Mindfully move into a workplace/friendship relationship.  Do think about the dynamics of your workplace should your friendship go sour for any reason.  Make sure they are trustworthy, even if you have had a disagreement.

5. Do your personal best:  By doing your personal best each day, and avoiding office drama, you ensure that your work reviews will yield positive results. You are not there to make friends, you are being paid to do a job, and to do it well!  

I also want to address some of the things you can say to change the energy of blame, shame, and scapegoating in the workplace:

I have a friend whom has climbed the corporate ladder, making her vulnerable to criticism and "passing the buck."  (She has given her consent for me to share this with you)

Here are some pearls of wisdom from her that she has used successfully: 

1. Thank you for sharing this with me.  I appreciate your time and effort in expressing this.  John was actually responsible for and assigned this task, but I will bookmark it for the future should  I have the same task given to me.

2.  Thank you for your feedback, I will pass this onto the team member that was responsible for the completion of this section of the contract.

3.  (if it is a boss)  Your insight and wisdom are valued at the workplace.  We greatly respect your perspective and appreciate that you respect our position and views with equal regard.  

4. (Narcissistic boss) You are always right on point and see things even before they manifest as an issue.  I will pass your expertise along to the crew in charge of this aspect of the project and have them get back to you right away.

5.  (co-worker at the same level)  Thank for taking the time to discuss this with me.  I see from the memo dated (put the date here!), that this was Jay's responsibility.  I suggest that you set a meeting with Jay to look at this and to establish a recovery plan.

6. (if someone is gossiping around you) Sounds like there is a lot going on here. Rather than talk about Sally when she is not here, let's talk to her directly about this to minimize any office gossip and damage to her reputation.

Here is the TO DO list for a happier work experience for you:

1. Come in with a cheerful and professional attitude.

2. Keep emotions out of it. Do leave the emotional doormat at home.

3. Be mindful of whom you have as friends at work.

4. Do your work the best of your ability each day.

5. Stay away from office drama.

6. Refrain from discussing any hot button social, religious, or political issues.

7. Show up 10 minutes early ready for work, and leave on time.  Have a healthy boundary between work and home.

8. Do take your designated breaks to keep up your energy, productivity,  and alertness,

9. Keep your communications efficient and clear.

10. Be professionally empathetic (I empathize with you for all the extra work you have taken on.  While I cannot  know how you are feeling, I respect you)

11. Treat everyone with respect, you never know when they might be a referral source for you. 

If after all this you find that your work environment has not improved, and you have given it sufficient time to resolve, do look for another job.  Make sure, though, that you are moving forward rather than running away from the previous toxic work environment. Forgive them, and let it go for your own sake and future professional growth.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  I hope that has been helpful and encouraging.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Romance and the Sandwich Shop

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to our healing space together.. If this is your first time to my blog, thank you for joining.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing!

I have a wonderful sandwich shop in my neighborhood. They not only bake their own bread, but they have fresh organic ingredients, and you can build your own sandwich specifically and precisely as you choose.  You know exactly what to expect, no surprises, a made-to-order meal, and you even get to watch them make it for you.   While this may be an AI reality, for this is already happening, it is not optimal for a happy relationship.  Even those with the AI version of what they want in a relationship have it programmed for specific responses, and have reported that it became quite monotonous.

It only romance were this easy, where you could walk in and custom order every single aspect, characteristic, and feature, and have exactly what  you have on your list for a romantic partner.  None of the quirks or surprises would be present, for you would have designed your mate exactly as you wanted them to be.  Without the surprises, you would find yourself getting bored after awhile, for you had limited your ability to grow and change together, and the excitement of getting to know one another.

And yet...

you are unhappy when you do not get what you want in a relationship, when you have different communication styles, or they do not text you back at the rate you desire or with the reciprocated message. You are frustrated when they do not want to commit at the same time as yourself or move forward into engagement and marriage,

While they are their own person, born into their own family, with their own unique history, feeling, and sentience, you anticipate, and may even demand that they:

Know what you want when you want it

Can read your signals

Can read your mind

Know when you need affection and space

Will match your communication style

Will have the same drive for intimacy

Will be there for you in the way you are there for them

Will have the same expectations for a family.

Will have the same timeframes

It is the niceties and unexpected connections in a relationship that bring growth as a couple.  It is the differences that fuel the passion and sparks, and keep it interesting. It is the quirks that make each of us unique.  It is your growth as a couple over the years, trying new things together, travelling, having a family, and watching each other that evolves that makes it interesting.

When you are getting to know someone that could be "the one" please do take your time.  Get to know each other, talk, date, meet each other's friends and family, and enjoy the small differences. If you find that you continue to resonate, wonderful, or if you find that you are not as compatible as you first thought, then think about walking away,  so that you are free to meet the one with whom you can spend your life.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

Please feel free to call for your personalized consultation with myself or one of the other gifted psychics at Meet Your Psychic.  It is a joy to bring clarity to you and hold space for you.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Room to Breathe

​Bright Greetings.

Welcome to our healing space. If this is your first time reading my blog, WELCOME!   Welcome to my returning readers.  Thank you for liking, sharing, subscribing, and connecting in our Sacred Space.

I am often asked "how often should I read regarding an ongoing issue or topic?"  

Great question!

I like to use the analogy of a good bottle of wine.  When you open a good bottle of wine, you do not pour it straight away, you wait.  





If you drink it right away, it will not have had time mix for  the wine  to "stretch it's legs" if you will.  Depending on how long it has been corked, it may have to breathe for 25 - 30 minutes (especially with a younger vintage wine).  The flavor is much more pleasing and smooth to the pallet, and you have a much better experience (especially when pairing it with the complementary cuisine!).

Or think of an excellent prosciutto or cheese.  If not properly aged, you have an immature product.  Given time and the enzymatic, brining, or salting process, you will have a delicacy sure to please the senses.

If you have a romantic issue:

Micromanaging and having more than 3 readings a week, is like pouring wine straight from the bottle rather than letting it breathe.  You and I can become so intent upon hearing what you want to hear, that it can take over your own beautiful intuition. Romantic energy is more of a labyrinth than a point A to point B journey.  There are many twists and turns, free will, and exterior influences and stresses.   Micromanaging can lead to increased anxiety, and can create a disharmonious energy in your life.

I do believe and support working with different readers for each reader will have their own approach to a reading, and offer a fresh view to you.  The gifted psychics at Meet Your Psychic are glad to be here for you to offer honest and clear readings. You ultimately make the decisions and determine the path that you will walk.  We are honored to be part of this journey with you. <3

Personal Social Media as a mirage:

Social Media is not an accurate representation of what is actually happening behind the scenes.  It is used (personally) to manipulate the snapshot of your life that you want people to see.  You do not post that you were a day late on your power bill, or that you got a ticket for going 25 miles over the speed limit,  You share the things that shed in the light that you choose to be seen. 85% - 90% of all personal social media posts are not honestly represented.  It is not that you and I are intentionally dishonest, but more that you feel that it cannot hurt to portray the way you want your life to look. Wishing and dreaming, if you will.(or possibly fooling ourselves)

If you are looking a your love's or exes  social media, please bear this in mind, and realize that you and I tend to show only the things that we want others to see, not the 90% of our lives with traffic jams, long work, hours, and relationship challenges.

Take time to breathe.

Honor the space.

And give the magic in your life time to unfold.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  I look forward to connecting to each of you in the future,

IN Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Punching the Relationship Timeclock

​Bright Greetings,

It is a genuine pleasure connecting with each of you as we explore and hold Sacred Space together.  This is our healing time.

I was doing my morning meditations and I felt drawn to write about the dynamics of punching the relationship clock.  

While you may start out in love and being excited about your relationship, over time complacency can set it in and you can find yourself punching a  clock, and logging in the hours as a couple, rather than really growing together.

It may take months or even years to arrive here, with kids, work, social, and extended family obligations gradually squeezing out your time together.  The resurgence of the Bromance and the Goddess movements have been fueled, at least by (a strong 50% ) the fact that you are not being fed by your marriage or romantic relationship any longer.  The relationship has become more of a business contract (I pay the bills, do the chores and you mow the lawn and clean the gutters on the house).  The importance of smart technology in your life, it is easy to use that as a distraction from the dis-satisfaction you are feeling in your relationship.  At some point, you simply stop trying to get your romantic partner's attention and find yourself fulfilling a role, rather than have a loving or uplifting connection.

Outsourcing leads to a lack of emotional trust, so this means, that if you are a woman that you stop sharing your emotional self with your romantic partner a little at a time, until the communication is down to the necessary and minimal transmission of FYI. As a man, you find yourself focusing on work, and time with friends or at the gym rather than spending time at home.  As the descending spiral continues, you may be utilizing text messaging, emails, or some form of messaging application to relay data to one another, thus cutting out the actual conversation aspect of your relationship out nearly completely.

The passion and intimacy will have been leached out of the relationship long before this, as well as any kisses, hugs, or having family dinners or time together.  It is not uncommon to see you living in separate bedrooms at this point.  If you have kids together, or have financial commitments as a couple, that will keep you together for a time, but the place you once called home is now a house where you share space (roommates).

It is not surprising that your attentions can start to turn to romantic interests outside the relationship, where you are getting the validation you no longer receive where you live.  With the online dating apps, slide left or slide right, and the ease of on line profiles and the ability to casually meet, that you find someone else and then the relationship really is over, for you have given your feelings over to another.

This is the end of empathy for your "romantic partner of record" (for your friends and family may not know your situation yet!), and when empathy leaves, things really are over.

Without empathy, we really do have a mechanical relationship, where things are done on a schedule or by rote.  You many find yourself arguing when you do attempt an in person communication, and are even more frustrated with the dis-connect.  Trust is nearly completely eroded, and you are quite simply FED UP with living such a hollow relationship reality.

The million dollar question:

Can this be prevented?


The moment that the affection and communication start disappearing, you have a window of opportunity to save your relationship and family. Assess what is happening and do a 360 sweep around you.  What do you see. feel, hear, sense?  How is your communication?  Do you talk about things other than the essentials?  Has your level of affection decreased?   Do you still laugh together?  Share meal time?  Text and talk throughout the day?

Answer the call to your relationship 911:

Add Empathy back into your relationship, and make space to listen to each other!  By adding empathy, even if it is not verbally expressed if can be felt.  Be tenacious in staying empathetic, for it takes time to turn things around.  Realize, though, that being empathetic does not entail becoming a doormat or a whipping post.  Please do hold a healthy boundary, and have a sense of personal confidence and dignity.  

Start saving energy for your relationship again, and slowly start integrating non essential communication back into the relationship.  Such as : "I had a wonderful lunch today with my high school best friend, it was lovely to see her after so many years."  Let you romantic partner back into the nuances of your life and this is critical, do no expect nor demand reciprocity.  Let it flow naturally!  It takes time to tear down the walls between you, for they were built brick-by-brick.

Start including affection again: sweeping hair back from their face, brushing their hand when you talk, hugging, kissing, and shoulder rubs when you are in the same room together.  

Be patient, and let the re-connection and trust grow again between you. naturally. If you find yourself falling back into the same pattern of distancing yourself, move back into the space of empathy and intentional, loving, connection.   

Step away from criticisms, and when you feel a fight about to brew, stop and take a breather,  You can talk about it when you are both calm.

This one is important!:  Please do not use your cell phones in the bedroom.  That is your sacred space as a couple.  Either turn your phone off (only exception, if you are on call for your business or company), turn off the ringer, or set it where you cannot see it.  Remember, most people turn to technology, such as the wide array of games you can play on your phone, or stream movies, to decompress and avoid real time contact with others.  This is escapism at is best!

Socialize with other happy couples, for this vibe is contagious!

You CAN stop being on the clock and have your relationship back.  Be mindful of where your energy is going, and watch your relationship go from sour to sweet.

Thank you for sharing this time together. 

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love, Truth, and Connection,

Shira <3

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The Anxiety of Timelines

​Bright Greeting, 

Welcome to my blog for the first timers and to my regular subscribers.  It is a joy to connect to you in Sacred Space where healing is available to us all.

I want to share today the reality of Timelines and their correlation to an anxiety driven life.

In every major world religion, the concept of the release of fear is supported.  It is about going to the higher vibration, and rising above fear, insecurity, lack of confidence, uncertainty, external validation, low expectations, non reciprocal relationships, failure to complete and finish things that are important to us, losing ourselves and our values to romantic relationships, or selling our souls to have a career that is unfulfilling.

To aspire and successfully remain at the higher energy of confidence, mindfulness, self regulating certainty, internal knowledge of you intrinsic value, and the ability to attract and manifest abundance in all forms. At this level we attract abundance in relationships, career, friendships, and where you and I make decisions from a place of clear and unbiased consciousness.

Timelines stand in the way.

I will say this again, for it bears repeating:

TImelines stand in the way for they are connected to a script.

This script contains exactly the way that you and I want our lives to manifest, and we even have words that we want to hear from others, and sometimes even demand to hear.

You and I dig our heels in, and when we do not get our way, or another person's free will conflicts with our script, we get angry, upset, confused, and insecure.  This leads to anxiety which clouds our judgement. and leads us to lose trust in our intuition and in others.

The Remedy is simple:

Set the timelines aside, especially when they are tied to another person's or persons' free will.  You and I can wish and hope that they will march to the beat of our drum, but this is not realistic.  Unless they are your employee and are obligated to do so, they will seek their own individuality and persona, and have their own scripts that are active.  

When you and I focus on timelines, we miss the life happening around us each day and the plethora of opportunities for growth and abundance that cross our paths. 

Timelines are addicting...

for the "I have to know" takes away the joyful nuances of our lives.  You and I would rather know exactly what is ahead rather than leave space for the sweetness.

There are a thousand tiny moments in which the Universe and Divine Energy opens up to us, much like flower petals opening to the sun, where we have the chance to blossom, shine, and be seen for the glorious people  that we are and are becoming.

But that does mean that if we are seen for who we are and our true unexpressed potential that you and I now need to rise to that potential, for once known, you cannot go back to mediocrity. 

Rise to your best self and do pay your bills, do clean up your messes, apologize when needed, and offer gratitude, lots of gratitude for the blessings you do have in your life.

Set the timelines aside.

Be present in your life.

Be mindful.

Use your free will and wisdom to make positive decisions.

Operate from the courage to grow rather than sabotaging yourself and failing.

Face yourself honestly each day!

Your life is unfolding moment by moment, enjoy the journey, and stop watching the clock.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I respect and appreciate you.

I love you and I believe in you.

Please contact myself or one of the other gifted readers at Meet Your Psychic, and when asking about your future, be open to all of the messages from Spirit,

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Do you get the TOO?

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to our Sacred Place.  A place where you and I can commune with Divine Energy.  It is a joy to meet you here!

I felt drawn to discuss the TOO of relationships.  I am referring to the TOO added to the end of I miss you, I love you, and the energy that you put forward into your relationships and friendships.  

If you are at the TOO end of things, you are the one saying I love you consistently and you get the "I love you, TOO."  this can lead to more than a little frustration!

I love you, too.

I miss you, too.

I need you, too.

I like spending time with you, too.

I appreciate you, too.

Finding yourself at the TOO end of things, over time, gets old.  Even when you back off saying I love you, I miss you, I appreciate you, you may find that that the effort to say these things to you of their own volition is not present nor in action. 

Unless you back off and give them space to open up to saying it to you first and making the verbal validation more equal and reciprocal, things do not change.  The longer you have been the one to initiate the more challenging it is to cease offering it up with high frequency  Place the energy into growing your sense of healthy self-esteem and boundaries instead.  Take the inward journey and connect to the part of yourself that needs the external validation versus knowing your inherent value. Work with a counselor it you find that you need some therapeutic tools for working your way through this terrain.  

When you are giving out more I love you, I need you, I appreciate you, than you are receiving, you may be giving too much.  You can embody  these statements in your energy and your actions and they will be more easily seen by those around you.  While manners to count (please, thank you), you are more likely to have things turn around to being more equitable and reciprocal, if you stop extending past healthy boundaries.  Giving too much and people pleasing can become a lifetime pattern, and one that yields little happiness or joy.

When you give from the place of having more than you need, and freely (not expecting nor demanding immediate reciprocity), and are certain in the security of YOU, that'w when change starts to occur.  You will get the I love you, I appreciate you, I value you, I cherish you, and it will feel amazing!

Remember, though, rather than add the TOO at the end, and only if you feel drawn to say it, do say it back.  The positive impact of giving and receiving an I love you, without the TOO, holds much more emotional currency and significance for both parties involved. 

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Making Your Holiday Brighter.

​Bright Greetings Dear Ones,

Welcome to my blog for all the first timers!   I am delighted to be here with each of you in Sacred Space.  This is our time to find healing collectively, taking it into the world as individuals.

Rather than do the typical "Holiday Survival Guide"  I wanted to come from the angle of "Holiday Thriving Guide."  

The holidays seems to bring about an urgency to resolve broken relationships,and to exacerbate any losses we have had (those whom have crossed the rainbow bridge).

So let's look at thriving versus surviving!

1. Step outside yourself:  Do something for others, whether you are working at a food bank, handing out coats to kids, adopting a family and providing them with a dinner, volunteering at at animal shelter, helping with an animal adoption event, or even helping your neighbor out by watching the kids one day a week. The key is to step away from yourself, and place that energy which is likely to turn to anxiety into something lovely and beneficial.

2. Maintain a healthy routine:  Stay with the aspects of your life that are working for you,  Walk your dog an extra 20 minutes, continue to take your nightly bubble bath, or whatever it is that makes you feel better and keep your emotions stable.

3. Honor the memory of those no longer with you:  Light a candle and raise a toast in celebration to their lives rather than grieve.  I do know that your loved ones are in a better place and do not want us to be hurting.  They want their lives to be remembered with joy, happiness, and gratitude.

4.  Spend time with people that mean the most to you:  This will help you to stay on an even keel emotionally, rather than go into the holiday survival spiral.  While you are expected to spend time with people that you rarely see and may not resonate, showing those whom you love dearly how much you care for them will keep you all uplifted.

5.  Please know that everyone has their struggles:  You and I put on a good face, but the holidays trigger something that you long for in resolution or closure, as this is the end of the year.  It is at the end of the year that you start to realize that you did not resolve or do as much as you had planned.  Time has not run out, it is simply flowing into the next year!  Share some kindness and actively work to make someone else's day better.  An encouraging word, supportive gesture, whatever it may be, when you offer empathy and loving kindness to others, you feel better, too.

6. Make a gratitude list:  When you focus on what you DO have, and how blessed you are in your life, the anxiety, fear, and the lower emotions begin to dissolve.  This is something that when done in daily practice, keeps you feeling positive, grounded, and ready to rise to any situation in your life with grace.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  

I love you and I believe in you.

Please call me or one of the amazing advisors at MYP if you are in need of encouragement, support, and clarity.  We are here for you, and committed to being a source of support for you.  If you have something that you would like myself or one of the gifted readers to write about, please feel free to suggest it at the end of your Psychic Reading.  

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Shira's Wheel of the Year

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to all of the first timers to my blog and welcome back to my subscribers.  Please share my blog with others whom would be interested and benefited.  I am open to suggestions for topics, so feel free to share this with me during your psychic reading if you like.

I want to talk to you about a reading that I have developed in my 46 years as a reader.  It is my Wheel of the Year, and it gives you a look ahead, month-by-month, and is a tarot spread developed to mark your calendar year ahead for any auspicious dates or the best times to act in various areas of your life.  This is something that I have worked and reworked to make it the most comprehensive and clear reading possible for you.  The typical time frame for this type of reading is 30 minutes, for you can get a nice overview of all the areas in your life.  

If you only have 10 minutes you and I can do a quick overview with a three card spread, past/present/future or body/mind/spirit.

I also do a comprehensive relationship reading, which takes about 30 -45 minutes that reveal exactly how you are connecting at a chakral and energetic level with your would be, ex, or current romantic partner. This is done using a tarot deck as well.

I use tools only upon request (cards, runes, crystals, pendulum, numeric dice), and honor your belief system.

Please schedule your 2019 reading and get that peek ahead into your year with myself of one of the other gifted and compassionate readers at Meet Your Psychic.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love, Truth, and Healing,

Shira <3

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