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Psychic Shira

Welcome. The vision for this Blog is to allow an opportunity for our Psychic Advisors to offer helpful guidance to improve your present and future life. This forum is also an excellent way to be introduced to an advisor if you have not had the opportunity to experience their services.


Meet Your Psychic

Shira has been reading for 26 years, and is Certified in Energy Healing and Distance Healing Techniques.
She was trained in intuitive readings, beginning her path as an intuitive, as a teenager when she realized that not everyone saw, felt, or experienced the world the way she did.
Shira is Clairsentient, Clairaudient, and Clairvoyant, and believes that each of us is here to contribute to the greater good. Her empathic ability to see to the heart of the matter has aided her in bringing clarity to her clients for many years. She utilized her intuitive abilities as a Licensed Massage Therapist for 15 years, and believes in the body-mind-spirit connection. It is her pleasure to assist in bring you clarity and compassionate objectivity with your beautifully evolving life.


Feeling Lost and Seeking Direction?

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for subscribing, sharing, and liking. It is a joy to connect with each of you.

Let's talk about feeling lost without a compass.  Not being sure which direction you should move, and wishing that you even had the ability to overcome your own inertia.  Let's do a 360 and investigate some life aspects that could be dragging down your Chi, or life force energy.

Let's do it old school and count down  ten to the number one culprit!

10. Over committing yourself: Filling your schedule up will only confuse the issue.  The key word here is SIMPLIFY.  Making things more complex may make you feel like you are doing better, but this illusion will only last for a short time. Only this time you are up to your eyeballs in commitments that you cannot step away from.

9. Watching your phone every second of the day:  It is physically draining to be responding to every text, every email, every call, all day, everyday.  It takes away from your ability to focus and to have a calm, stable, nervous system. Keep your phone away from your bedside (if you can!), so that you give yourself some social "downtime."

8. Impulse purchases: This is one form of distraction that you utilize when you are feeling lost or seeking direction.  Do you need the energy twirler from the store?  Will you really use it?  Or is it just good money down the drain, and and item for your next garage sale?

Have a list when you go shopping, and a budget, to help prevent purchases that make you wonder "what was I thinking?" later on. 

7. Impulse or emotional eating: Rather than go for peanut butter cups or comfort food, try a cup of tea or water first.  If you do feel the need to nosh, have healthy items prepped to eat in the refrigerator or cupboards. Eat a small amount, see how you feel. It is easy to fill the void with emotional eating.  Do a 360 and look at what is bothering you. Come up with a plan for resolving this, so that you are moving into having purpose and direction in your life again.

6. Binging with any form of movie or television series:  Nothing distracts like watching a television or movie series in it's entirety! Going into fantasy mode, or living through another's eyes and reality do take away from your dilemma of feeling lost. In the long run, though, it does more harm than good.

5. Using drug and alcohol to fill the void: This only digs the hole deeper, for when you are sober and back to reality, you can feel even more lost than before, and very likely lost and alone. Lean more in the arena of self regulation, to begin to regain your strength and direction.

4. Call your friends and eat up their time with your unhappiness: If you want to keep your friends, please keep these calls to a minimum and do ask how they are doing, too.  It is when you step outside yourself and show empathy, love, and concern for others that you start to regain the use of your own compass. If you are legitimately feel low, and that you are having difficulty going on, please see a therapist that can address these concerns with you. Your friends are not your therapist, and cannot give you the tools you need to overcome feelings of being blue or depressed.

3. Curling up under the covers rather than engaging with life:  When you feel the need to curl up and hide, take a walk, get moving, connect with your physical strength and vitality.  Working in the yard or garden, connecting to Mother Earth cam help to ground you, giving you a feeling of purpose.

2.Procrastinating:  Telling yourself that you will take care of it tomorrow, and that one more day won't hurt.  Stepping up and attending to the details of your life DO help to bring you a sense of purpose and accomplishment.  Do this everyday!  Do this everyday for the next moth and you will have moved forward, and found the rhythm of your life.

And here is our number one!  Before we hit our top stagnation culprit, if you like what you are reading, please SUBSCRIBE to my blog and that of the other readers at Meet Your Psychic that you read on a regular basis!

1. Comparing your life to others:  They are so successful, why can't I be that successful?  What's wrong with me?  Time is passing and things are not getting better!  Step away from comparing yourself to others for it only leads to you feeling more isolated.  Think about what you do what your life to be, at it's highest ideal. If you are single, what ideally is your perfect mate? What financial status do you personally envision for your life? What is the quality of your friendships?  Rather than have happiness as the focus, look at where you really want your life to be, Base this on your vision, and set aside the opinions of those around you. Step away from being a victim to someone that is empowered and focused on your dreams, goals, and vision for your life.  Set daily goals towards achieving the life that you want.

If you read all the way through, you have already started to change your life, for you took the time to look at he 10 major blockages to moving forward.  Congratulations!  

Thank you for sharing this time together. Many blessings as you move forward as an empowered and inspired YOU.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Make Friends with CHANGE

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you!  Thank you for subscribing and sharing. 

Let's dive into the topic of CHANGE, the C word that so many of us dread.  For instance, you boyfriend or girlfriend talks to you about needing change in the relationship. If you are with the majority of readers, your mind skipped ahead to a negative outcome.  Change is often positive!  Chaos or change is the very nature of our world.  A trees loses it's leaves in the fall, and regains them in the spring. Bulbs in the ground go dormant until reawakened by the beginning of warm weather. Children grow from infancy to adulthood, with us celebrating their milestones!

Change is positive, for it is how you and I EVOLVE, grow, and thrive.  

Yet change is feared. You and I want things to stay the same, the status quo, predictable, consistent. 

But what if your life could be BETTER, more alive, more abundant, and more meaningful.

What if your friendships could be deeper and more fulfilling?

What is your career is thriving, growing, and developing?

What if you could go from dating to being engaged?

Or engaged to being married?

Or being married to having your first child?

Change is the Cosmic "what if" and is necessary. There is a season, and a time for everything and everyone.  We dance with the energy of the Universe, rather than fight it, staying in a constant state of retrograde (which we all know is tedious!). Let go of fear and be adventurous!

As humans we long for change, upgrades, and living thriving and vibrant lives.

Make change your friend, and watch the magic unfold.

What if?????

In Divine Love, Truth, and Change,

Shira <3

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Cyber Bullying

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Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a joy to connect with you!  Thank you for sharing, subscribing, and liking.

If you are online in any capacity, Youtube, working as an online Psychic, customer service, or an online celebrity, you will encounter cyber bullies and trolls.  People who would rather use their time and energy to drag other people's energy down. I believe that it is a "misery loves company" scenario.  Often cyberbullies will blame you for their problems, issues, and refuse to take ownership for the fallout they have in their personal or professional lives.   There is a significant percentage that have a moderate level of mental health imbalances, whom people have been afraid to hold accountable for their destructive and volatile behavior.  It saddens me to see so many without love, support, and encouraging influences.  I have empathy for their situation when they fall into the the victim mentality (life happens to them rather than making their lives happen), for their life path surely must be filled with hardship, most of which is not their fault.  Remember, life happens TO them.  The lack of ownership is apparent, with the blame, shame, and guilt they apply to everyone else, rather than really taking responsibility for their actions and consequences.

In the many years of doing this work, I have worked with many different people.  My 3 years spent as part of my energy healing certifications in a locked psychiatric unit have been of great benefit.  As an intuitive, I have love for everyone, coming from a place of 

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Make Each Day Count!

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a joy to connect with you. Thank you for sharing, subscribing, and liking!

You come into this life with a soul full of love and purpose. You know you are here to do something to make a difference, and that you have interests, passions, gifts, and a strong drive to succeed.   You are ready for the task, but the big question remains: What can I do as one person?

I was watching a moving memorial service for a well know woman recently, and was moved by the legacy that she left behind. In her 56 years she accomplished the following: 

Worked with the legislature to change regulations regarding rehabilitating criminals, advocacy those weaker than ourselves, placing a returning value on family and marriage (life, love, fidelity, and steadfastness), and working with various charities.  She used her status to make a difference, and she stepped up, leaving a legacy being carried forward by her family and 23 million social media followers!  

Here's the way I share it with my Energy Healing Students (which I offer as a gift to my community to empower people to heal and take charge of their lives):

If you can affect and influence 10 people this week, to step up for social change, and each of those individuals does the same, and each of those 10 influenced follows suit, your one encounter has impacted not 10 people but over 100!  In a week!  You come into this world to bring about positive change, to wake people up, to shake up misconceptions, to stand for LOVE!

Yes! You can and do make a difference, but please use your influence wisely.  Leave things better than you found them.  Love because you can, not because you are called to or are supposed to  love.  Represent kindness, patience, and understanding.  Take ownership for your life, decisions, and consequences.  When you blame others for your consequences, you do not grow, which is part of your purpose for being here now.

You are a the helm of your life and directly reap the consequences (either positive or negative), of your decisions.  I ask you to consider your how you can represent positive change in your communities and our shared world.

Whether you are donating your time to a children's literacy program, volunteering at a hospice or elder facility, working with or donating to an animal rescue foundation, or working with the government to  bring about equality in the workplace, do SOMETHING!

What is it that inspires passion in you?  What do you believe in?  Where do you see the need for love, change, and healing?

Step in, taking one small step, and making one small commitment.  Follow through with that commitment, and when you feel called to do more, do so!

You are needed now, dear ones, with your love, passion, and immense energy for leaving this world better than you found it.  It is as simple as listening over a cup of coffee to someone in need,  Your love and kindness, taking the time to listen will have a far greater (positive) impact than you can imagine.

'Thank you for sharing this time together. You are remarkable!

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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It's all about the LOVE...

​Bright Greetings, 

Welcome to my new and returning readers.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.  It is a joy to connect with you. 

As we say in my home for many years:  It's all about the LOVE.  

But what is bundled in with real and unconditional love.

Here are a few of the guidelines.

1. Love forgives.
2. Love does not procrastinate.

3. Love shows up when it is needed, rather when it is most convenient for us.

3. Love is extremely patient.

4. Love is steadfast.

5. Love is compassionately honest, and has empathy (not sympathy! Sympathy is a lower state emotion) for others.

6. Love is ego-less.

7. Love is collaborative.

8. Love is discerning and connects with like-minded and equally reciprocal relationships.

9. Love keeps promises, but makes them lightly.

10.Love has healthy boundaries.

11.Love apologizes, and THEN demonstrates through action and change.

12.Love refrains from blame, shame, and guilt.

13.Love advocates for those in need.

LOVE IS YOU Dear Ones!

I love you and I believe in you.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

Like what you are reading, please hit that subscribe button!

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Fundamentals of an Enduring Relationship

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Welcome to my blog to all new and returning readers!  It is a joy to connect with you. Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

I have received many calls over the years where relationships that have been strong and loving in the beginning suddenly start to decline.  The big question of WHY hangs in the air.  What happened, did I do something wrong?   Is there somebody else? He used to call at lunchtime, why did he stop?   She used to want date night, I don't understand.  She/he is no longer interested in me anymore.

This sudden decline happens in microscopic moments over time, where the small considerations begin to become less and less present in our everyday lives.  The affection begins to diminish, the communication moves into essential data, and you start to outsource your time and energy to friends outside the relationship.  Outsourcing is where you start to build relationships outside your romantic pairing to make up for a deficit in the relationship.  You spend more and more time apart, start going out separately, and living like you are in essence, two singles in the same home.

Let's take a closer look at what is really happening, from the beginning. 

You meet, date, spend time together talking and building a foundation of memories and experiences, you meet each other's family and friends, and you live together, or perhaps, get engaged, married, and then live together.  You start a family, cultivate your careers, and establish the rhythm of a bustling household as a couple.  You experience loss together, and navigate financial issues, and perhaps health issues. You do this together, and this changes you. It changes the nature of your relationship, and you find yourself getting caught in the mundane details of being together. You have a circle of friends with whom you spend time together.  In the early stages you make time for each other, for intimacy, for communication (other than being out of milk!), and you connect. As time passes, and you settle into routine together, the newness of the relationship wears off and you find that you are comfortable, and your love changes to that of a deeper love, one of daily commitment.

Now here is where the road diverges for many couples:

You either take the relationship to the deeper level, and work together to cultivate the relationship, making your relationship a priority.

You work at remaining close ans a couple, committed to growing together throughout the course of your lives and continuing to have shared experiences.  You stand the test of time, and love each other more with every passing year. You care about each other's feelings, preferences, and still have small thoughtful gestures such as flowers, and romantic dinners.


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Procrastinators in Relationships: Radio Silence

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my blog to my first time and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you!  Thank you for sharing,subscribing, and liking my blog!  This is our sacred space to dialogue and reside in love together.

You and I have all that had that friend, the one that bailed at the last minute to going out, ignored text messages, failed to reciprocate, and was simply unresponsive when you needed them to reach out and initiate contact.  You might get them a fabulous birthday gift, always send them cards, call them, text them, and work to keep the friendship/relationship alive. It may have become so frustrating that you simply threw your hands up in the air and said "ENOUGH!"  And you would be right to do so. (Please do forgive them and move on!)

If you are an organized, responsible person, being with someone romantically that fails to come through repeatedly (with the only reliability that they will fail to follow through!), this can become a frustrating pairing.  If this is a family member, you take into account that they will flake out on you, and do not have much in the way of expectation from them.  

If you have friends like this, it makes connecting nearly impossible, and over time the friendship will fade, and you will find that weeks, months, or years pass and you are out of contact completely.

One point in time I had a boyfriend, let's call him Fred.  Fred when we first connected was an interesting and engaging person, charismatic, and was quite proactive in communicating in making plans to spend time together.  Over time, though, I noticed that he went from being on time, to 5, and even 30 minutes late.  If we were going to a movie, we had to re route our plans or go to a later showing. It got to the point that Fred would blow off the date altogether, and I would get a message around midnight or one that he had fallen asleep or some excuse for not having kept the commitment.  I would text, and the most he would respond with was a "k" and ignore the bulk of my text.  I quickly reached the conclusion that Fred was a procrastinator of EPIC proportions!  I am the one that is  ahead on household consumables, bills, and has a planning calendar on my desk, as well as a daily "to do list."  I set goals and I achieve them, and make productive use of my time.  I also believe in clear, loving, and mindful communication.  Fred and I parted ways early on in the game, much to my relief!  When I ran into him at the mall several years ago, he was in the same place in his life that he had been when we stopped seeing each other.  I had accomplished a number of significant goals in the time that we were apart.  I realized that had I stayed connected to him, that I would not have accomplished much and that my decision to part ways was a wise one.  Fred told me that he had been waiting for his life to clear up and change, and that he was still waiting!  There is so much that I wanted to say, but it would have been a colossal waste of my energy.

If you find yourself on the receiving end of text messages, emails, or communications with no response, cancelled dates, no shows without a call, bailing on you at the last minute, and it has become habitual, think about stepping away for good.  If you talked to them about it, and how you feel disregarded and disrespected, with no response or where you see that it has no impact on them, please realize they will only change when they feel motivated.  In the case of Fred, 5 years, and he was still in the same place, without having progressed one iota. 

Invest your personal time with people whom have goals, are loving, offer reciprocity, and are responsible.  You will find that you grow together, inspire, encourage, and empower one another.  There is a loving accountability.  

You determine what you choose to grow by the time and attention that you offer out in your life.  Think about what you would like to manifest in your life, and ask yourself:  Do the people I am connected to make me a better person?

Thank you for sharing this time together.  You inspire me!

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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A Loving Marriage: The Imprint

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for subscribing and sharing!  It is a tremendous blessing to connect with each of you.

I was asked to write about what it is to be an amazing spouse.  Being a loving and supportive spouse starts when you and I are at the imprinting stage, from newborn to age 7.  All of the major imprinting for the type of relationships that we will have as adults (unless you and I do the deep work and reprogram) is learned from observing and being immersed in the energy of our family marriages and close relationships.  It is during this time that we accrue the following programming:

1. What type of person you will attract:  Loving, supportive, difficult, manipulative, encouraging, patient, impatient.  You are programmed to attract a certain type of person as a romantic partner.

2. The type of relationship you will have:  You will replay and recreate the relationships that you experienced as a child whether healthy, abusive, toxic, and lovingly reciprocal.

3. How deeply you commit: Very few marriages that I have encountered are 100% committed.  It is what I have coined  "the 85% rule."

Simply interpreted, there is a holding back in the event that it does not work out, and so that it does not hurt so badly when things deteriorate.  If you have learned that love is 100% and that marriage is a loving and happy union, that is what you are programmed to recreate.

4. Whether you settle of hold to the ideal:  This is a complex programming chip!  Based on the statistics that I have personally graphed in thousands of readings, an admitted 70% of the population settles for what they think they can get versus holding true to their ideal.

When you settle, this becomes a reality that is harder and harder to maintain.  When you see other genuine couples, you realize how much you have lost in setting the bar too low for yourself.

5. Whether or not you will attract a cheating romantic partner: If you had one of your parents that cheated over the course of their marriage, even if you were not cognitively aware of it at the time, you are likely to attract a cheater OR be a cheater yourself.  The result is often the same, being divorced, possibly with multiple failed marriages under your belt.

6. How the household chores are distributed:  If Mom did all the cooking, cleaning, shopping, and daily "in the trenches" work, as a woman you are very likely to replicate this when you are married or in a committed partnership.  If Dad did nothing but work to support the family and was absent, as a man you can easily fall into this once you have kids.

So HOW do you reprogram, and take control of the script?

Let's look at how you consciously raise your kids:  

Mothers please raise your sons to be loving husbands, to be sensitive to their spouse, children, and teach them that it is OKAY to be emotionally mature.  When you assigning jobs around the house, have them do a rotation on a consistent basis of both male and female categorized chores.  Teach them how to cook, wash up after dinner, vacuum the carpet, mop the floor.   

For your daughters:  Make sure they know how to change the oil, mow the lawn, use power tools, in addition to the female gender stereotypical tasks.

By teaching your kids to break the gender barriers they have a better chance of happy relationships that if they are assigned to a limited set of tasks.  They say that Mother's love their sons and raise their daughters. Love you children equally, and give them each opportunities to discover who they are, their talents, abilities, preferences, and personalities.

Talk to you kids about how you know that you have met the "the one" rather than leaving it to google or a misguided friend.  Talk about the importance of having friends that are mature and support you in healthy relationships, rather than leading you down the path of "what he/she does not know won't hurt them." Talk about how having relationships as a couple with other loving couples enhances the joy you have with one another. Talk about the importance of knowing who they are FIRST before entering into a long term relationship or marriage.

Teach them to be responsible stewards of their money and resources, and to learn to be generous.  Please do talk about forgiveness, kindness, empathy, compassion, following through, and keeping their promises.  

Share the importance of taking vacations together, and building trust equity in a marriage or relationship.

And here is the most critical part:

SHOW THEM all of the above, so they fully hear, see, and understand what you mean.

If you and I want our children to see the demonstration of loving relationships, it is up to each of us to embody this by making the right choices, and sharing our love freely, without judgement, and with a great deal of consideration for the people, animals, and world in which we reside and share space together.

Take responsibility as an adult, and do the deep work to reprogram your thinking and beliefs about marriage, family, and relationships. Work with a qualified therapist, counselor, life coach, or healer.  Be willing to look at your subconscious programming, and to shift that which has never served you. Perhaps you bring a healing component into your family tree, and facilitate change in an exponential way!

Thank you for this time together. It is a joy to connect with you.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Rising above the Diagnosis

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for liking, subscribing, and sharing!  It is a joy to connect with each of you.

This morning's message is about Rising above the Diagnosis or Pathology.  You are more than you you diagnosis. Letting your diagnosis or pathology define you is limiting and diminishes the true beauty and expressions of YOU. 

Diagnosis: defining a problem based upon a list of symptoms.

Pathology: the science of determining a diagnosis based on scientific process and principles.

Do you define yourself by your hypertension, depression, diabetes, generalized anxiety disorder, bipolar, arthritis?

You see yourself through your relationships, career, parenting roles, soul's purpose, spiritual or religious beliefs, groups or organizations you belong to, and so much more!

I was out at the local farmer's market shopping for produce last Sunday and I heard (hard not to hear!) a woman complaining that people always judged her on being bipolar, nobody liked her, and that she was being victimized and judged by her family.  She was being very vocal about it, and at one point was saying how she was going to have to reschedule all of her medical appointments later that week as her family would not give her the gas money to go or take her.  She made a number of such attempts to have the person with her give her cash, always going back to being bipolar and nobody liking or helping her.  Instead of asking for a ride or for gas money outright, she fell back on her diagnosis, her abusive family, and on her companion's sympathy. The underlying message?  You don't have my illness, so you need to do this for me! The person being barraged failed to succumb to the guilt based manipulation and eventually she stopped her diagnostic diatribe. 

While I had empathy for her situation, as did the person with her, it would not have done a bit of good to enable her to stay "stuck" where she was, for surely she would have been back again without learning to rise above her diagnosis, and thrive in life versus survive.

I am pretty good at seeing through to a person's character, not in a judgmental way, but through the lens of love, and best and highest good.  

You and I are more than the assessment from our medical doctor or psychiatrist!  You and I are more than a number from the medical coding system, and yet, we use it all the time to define us.  

You have hobbies, friends, a wide array of life experiences, feelings, talents, gifts, intellect, athleticism, creativity, a soul, our feeling self, and our connection to source.

One of my cousins (whom has given me permission to share this with you!) developed diabetes early in life, and lost her eyesight. Her parents sat her down and told her that while diabetes had taken away her eyesight, that letting it define her or stop her from living life to the fullest was the worst thing she could do.  She participated in the same activities as her sight oriented siblings,and even surpassed them. She out swam them, won cycling competitions, running competitions, and even took rock climbing classes.  

She, along with her husband, rode her bike across the United States, and set a new world's record.  She most certainly took her  parents' message to heart. She is fearless, and we step up our game because of her passion for life and living.  She has inspired us all to be better, do better, and actualize our dreams.  

She could have been disabled and been defined by her early life changing medical issues. But she did not!  She was blessed with family that encouraged her, and did not offer her special treatment.  She even got her doctorate in her chosen field.  

Let's go back to the woman at the Farmer's Market, fully sighted, and trying to get people to do FOR her, rather than being empowered to rise above it, finding her life, and living passionately and positively.  

You are I write the script of our lives, and determine how we will approach the curve balls that come our way.  You choose to rise above and live a life filled with purpose, meaning, contribution, and love...


You resign yourself to your "fate."

Friends that I have known that have had cancer and won, are like my cousin, and have a zest for life.  Each day is seen as a gift, and they do not dwell on what was, rather, what is in front of them right NOW.

You are so much more, and your potential in this lifetime is unlimited.  What will you do with it?  Allow others to define you? Or will you rise above it and be empowered in your life?

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

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In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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It takes two to Tango

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my first time and returning readers.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

I want to talk about our Master Contracts versus our Survival Scripts. There are two levels: Survival mode (lower Chakras) and Thriving, (coming from an open and loving heart).  

The Survival Scripts that we write will include these statements:

I need this to happen for me.

Why can't I find a meaningful relationship?

What's wrong with me?

I want this to happen now.

I will get attention, even if it means from negative validation.

I can't do this alone!

I need people to support me.

I will try to succeed this time.

The Master Contract says:

I am and know my abundance.

I have a fully open and loving heart.

I am happy when others are successful.

I achieve.

I commit and follow through.

I am grateful for all that I have.

I move easily into every aspect of my life.

The Survival Script goes something like this:

I need to be successful, and I want to have support in this.  If I could just get closure from the situations of the past my life would be better.  When I get this, I will be be happy.

I feel that I always just scrape by, when will things get better for me?  When will my relationships improve? How could I be so naive to believe them?

Associated emotions:  Hope, fear, anxiety, stress, anger, animosity, blame, shame, guilt.

Here is a Master Script Example:

I am grateful for everything that I receive.  I am success and abundance, and I know that I have already connected to the series of events that lead to a successful and abundant life.  I forgive those whom have harmed, and send them healing energy so they would find themselves transformed.  I see that I do have control over my life and the achievement of my goals.  Rather than limit myself I look to endless abundance.  I celebrate the success of others, and do my personal best rather than compare myself to them.  I know that closure comes from me, and my ability to forgive. I manifest a beautiful day, everyday, and my heart is open to loving everyone unconditionally. I take action, and act from a place of Wisdom rather than react and permit lower emotions control me.  I am connected to Divine Source, and accept all the gifts of the Spirit.

Associated Emotions:  Unconditional Love, Gratitude, Belief, Honest optimism, kindness, living ethically, 

I love you and I believe in you.  Reside in Love.  You are more powerful that you know!

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Romance and Daisy Petals

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you. Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

Sometimes it feels like pulling daisy petals when it comes to romance and love.  He loves me, he loves me not, she loves me, she loves me not, and the uncertainty can be unsettling and frustrating.  You and I say, "If he/she really loved me they would"

Honor my feelings.

Be a better communicator.

Be more consistent in our time together.

Validate my feelings.

Take an interest in the things I love to do.

Be as kind to me as they are to everyone else.

Be more dialed into my needs.

Do things to take care of me.

Support and love me unconditionally.

Be faithful and stop cheating on me.

Be married to me, not their career.

Stop addictive behaviors and habits.

Be more respectful of my family.

Stop micromanaging me.

Help me around the house more.

Be more loving and affectionate.

I could go on with the list, but you get the idea.  It is a very small percentage of readers that has not been in a non-productive romantic pairing.  It has nothing to do with how handsome or beautiful you  how much money you have, how old you are, how young you are, your level of education, each of us has experienced an unfulfilling relationship. It has to do with what you are attracting into your life.

One of two things come from this:

You either take the Wisdom from it, learn, evolve, forgive, and change your law of attraction 


you continue to seek closure and find that it never happens.  You many even be a serial dater, repeating the negative relationship for the purpose of attaining closure, even if it is not from the person whom originally hurt you.

Perhaps you have been waiting for your romantic interest to come around, and come to their senses.  You just know they will come back to you, the amount of time does not matter, for you love them. You cannot get them out of your skin.  You feel their energy and that connection between you, and that has to mean something doesn't it?

They have to be the ONE for you to have such strong feelings for them, they surely the two of you are destined to be together!  This self dialogue will keep you stuck in a dead end relationship, in some cases, for years.  Years of your life are dedicated to this one person, whom clearly is not changing, not opening up or back up to the two of you.

My heart breaks when I hear the pain, disappointment, frustration, fear, and anger that you have experienced.  Please know that there is healing for you, and that as you transmute the negative to positive that your life does and will be brighter, happier, and more joyful.

When you can let go of what you want and even expect, you open the door to healing coming into your life, and possibly into that of your disenfranchised romantic relationship.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Clearing Negative Feelings.

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a joy to connect in Sacred Space with you.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing!  Thank you for choosing Meet Your Psychic for your healing readings.

I want to talk about what to do with negative feelings.  Negative feelings can arise from workplace clashes, disappointing family interactions, difficulties in your marriage or romantic relationship, financial hardships, a physical disability or pathology, or when  the rhythm of your life is feeling off.

When you have a negative feeling arise, rather than retreat from it, give is space!  Figure out what  is triggering the negative feeling.  Are you angry, afraid, anxious, bitter, frustrated, impatient, restless, depressed, how are you feeling?  What triggered it?  Is this an accumulation of feelings that you have not been processing?  This is what I have coined "emotional lasagna."   Layers of stress, add heat, and everything glues together, causing you and I react out of the blue.   Sometimes a scene ensues, where things spiral out of control and you may find yourself blaming or reacting to people that had no part in the origin of your feeling   Or you react to someone that you feel safe in "letting off steam" with, as they have proven themselves to be loving and patient with you. 

Everyone has their moments, it is what you do with it afterwards that counts.  If you have yelled at someone that has been there for you, going back to apologize and clear the energy between you is critical.  It is important to be aware of the collateral damage that you have left behind you.  Striking out at those whom have been supportive, customer service personnel, or  people that are innocently on the receiving end of your negativity, is not okay. Kindness matters, for the energy that you transmit is carried forward by those whom you have affected. 

Let this be your moment of awakening, and rather than suppress your feelings as they emerge, clear them then and there!   If you feel something bothering you, rather than set it aside for later, acknowledge it, look around you, what

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Pack Rules, Happy Life

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my blog to both new and returning readers.  It is a joy to connect with you.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

I love animals and have furkinder of my own that I adore.  They are my best friends, my office buddies, my consulting crew, and yes, my frequent recipe testers (a  role they take quite seriously!).

We have a few basic agreements in the home that make pack living joyful and equitable:

1. Everyone is included:  Nobody is left out and everyone receives love and attention every day.  Everyone feels loved, cherished, supported, and is taken into household considerations.I love you is said frequently, and reassurance is offered in a way that is meaningful to each individual in our home.  Their currency is honored.

2. Sharing is important:  We share and play nice, because we love each other.

3. Everyone eats: Everyone receives nourishment, served with love ( I cook their meals!), and on a reliable and prompt schedule.  The Alpha in the pack will wait until he sees that everyone else has eaten before having his own meal.  He looks after his own.

4. We work together:  As a pack, we work together, and look out after one another.

5. We walk nicely and use our manners:  I say please, and thank you to them, using manners. The energy of using manners sincerely carries a respectful feeling with it.  This cultivates trust in the home.

6. When there is a disagreement, we go to our special place to cool down:  Everyone has a place in our home that is their "cool down" place, and yes, they chose it based on pack order.  

7. We are careful what we watch and listen to together:  I am quite particular, and have only beautiful and edifying  shows they are permitted to watch. They listen to classical music, healing mantras, and music with uplifting messages.

8. We have a healthy snack together;  Midday finds us having our carrots. Carrots are a prebiotic and very healthy for normal flora in the intestines.If I eat healthy, so do they.  It is a lovely system of accountability.

9. We have a set bedtime and time that we rise together:  We get enough rest, and have a healthy and solid morning routine.  My dogs will even line up to have their teeth brushed in the evening. When they saw how enthusiastically I approached dental hygiene, they were all in, too!

10. It's all about the love: Only love, respect, kindness, empathy, compassion, and understanding permitted!  We care and listen to  one another and are sensitive to each other's feelings.

A home filled with love ensures that all within will thrive, as well as the people and animals that come visit.  This is our haven and Sacred Space together, and we take it seriously!  Those whom bring disruptive energy dial into the love in our home, and are changed from this Sacred Space intentionally created.

I have learned so much from my dogs, they have taught me about real unconditional love.  Their open, loving, and sweet natures make them a favorite with friends and family.  They have inspired me to be a better person and to stay on the healing path.  It is because of their influence that I became Certified in Animal Communication and Healing, as well as Canine Nutrition.  They have been a huge influence in leading a meaningful life and are natural healers and light workers themselves.  Each knows their role, and they fulfill it without ego, avarice, or asking for reciprocity.  They simply give BECAUSE they love.

I feel blessed each and every day to have these extraordinary and sentient animals in my life.  They have become my greatest teachers.  It is my honor, joy, and privilege to offer them the best life possible so I am supporting their soul's purpose while in this lifetime.  I truly believe that we have been together many times.

What will you set as the intention for your home?  How does that look and feel to you?

Thank you for sharing this time together.  I love you and I believe in you.

The pack and I send our prayers and blessings to you each and every day.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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The Psychic Process

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a genuine pleasure to connect with you!  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

I want to talk about the Psychic Process.  As an intuitive (which I prefer over psychic),  I receive information in a variety of ways, I hear it, see it, smell it, feel it, see it in small movies, get a word, I have even tasted it, and have palpably touched and felt the energy field of Spiritual Energy around me.  

Many Psychics use cards, and other divination tools to enhance their readings, and this is an accurate and viable form of intuition. Each card carries a vibration or an energy. Each number/image carries an meaning and energy,  and when the cards are shuffled, the cards are being triaged specifically FOR YOU.  Any reader worth their salt, does meditate, pray, call in healing, protection, and asks to connect to your guides, guardians, Divine Source, and Angels.  I personally book end my day with this I open with meditation and prayer early in the morning around 5 a.m. and I close out my day by offering gratitude for you, all of my Meet Your Psychic Family, for Divine love and support, and for the abundant blessings in my life.  I close the door on my day, so that I can get adequate rest for the next beautiful day.  

I receive a great deal of my inspiration from my dreams, downloads, Spiritual upgrades, and healing to my body, mind, and spirit. 

During my morning meditations, I ask for any information that I will need for the day, any messages that are going to be passed forward, and any family or friends that are with those with whom I am blessed to work with that day.  I found that asking for the majority of the download in the morning, making a note of the messages, that it is more efficient, and the path for your reading is paved ahead for you.  

I work with God, Divine Source energy, Archangels, Guardian Angels, Guardians, Guides, Ancestors, and Animal Allies.  I have been strongly connected to my intuition all of my life, and even though it was rough at times, for not all things that I see as an intuitive are happy and joyful, I am imminently grateful for this life.  I have seen Spirits since my earliest memory, and strongly connected with Gaia (Mother Earth).  At age 13, I began working in direct apprenticeship with my maternal grandmother, a well known psychic and healer, and the rest is history!  46 years later, I am still feeling like a kid in a candy store and loving the sweetness life has to offer.  I love hearing that sigh of relief from you during a reading or healing, and feeling your energy shift from anxiety to joy.  Seeing you coming back to connection with Divine Energy truly lights my day and life, and I feel deeply honored to have been witness to at least part of it.

Being Psychic is a lifestyle, but does not mean that you are plugged in and randomly giving readings to every Jane or Joe that you bump into throughout the course of your day. There are boundaries!  When , in a reading, you ask about someone else's spiritual path or life, and I get a wall from Divine Source (saying stop!), it means that you are not meant to know their path, for it is theirs and theirs alone.  Just as yours is confidential to you.  

Many years ago, I came up with what I call "the psychic HIPAA", meaning that your information is private between you, myself, and Source...period.  Unless I have specific permission to share in my work or teaching, it stays between us, so all that is revealed during your reading stays private.  I have a strict rule in my personal life that I do not refer to, speak of, nor share any aspect of my work. My friends and family refrain from asking out of respect and regard for you.  This also helps to draw a line between professional and personal life, for as was stated earlier, boundaries are important!  There is a Sacred Contract that is entered into between us, and I take this seriously.

When I hear, "tell me the truth, I can take it!" that is usually a cue that you are afraid to hear what Spirit has to share with you, but please know, that all of my readings come from a place of deep love, empathy, compassion, regard, and from an honest perspective.  I give it as I receive it!  My Divine support comes from the perspective of love and kindness rather than a dark, harsh, or negative reading.  My question each reading?  Where is the healing needed?  

Please know that whomever you are reading with, that you are connecting to another human being, a person just like yourself.  This is a Sacred Contract, and reciprocal respect is important.  It is sometimes easy to have transference occur during the reading, as in, placing your reader in the stead of the person with whom you are out of sync in your life.  Please know, that space is being held for your best and highest good each and every reading.  I love to paint and many years ago I painted a sign for my home "Nice Matters!" as a way of reminding the family that we are to respect and love each other. Nothing less will do.  

If you feel that you want to work on expanding your innate intuitive abilities (which I believe we are are born with), please give me or one of the other amazing readers on the Meet your Psychic site.  It is our joy to work and connect with you and your Spiritual entourage.

I love you and I believe in you.

Make today the best day of your life!

I look forward to working with you!

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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The Search for Meaning

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers. ​It is a joy to connect with you!  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing!   

Throughout the course of our lives, we seek meaning, connection, understanding, and fulfillment.  We connect, grow, outgrow, and seek to find our place as well as distinguish our individuality.  

We seek to connect to love, real unconditional love, and connection to Divine Source.  We seek meaning for the reasons that we are here now, and what this life really means. The older we get, the more important it becomes to have meaning in our lives. It is far too easy to fill the void in our lives with addiction, serial dating, becoming a workaholic, having psychiatric issues (depression, generalized anxiety disorder, schizophrenia,, and many more),  and the inability to trust our intuition.  The more profound the void, the more our spirit longs to fill it, and often with things that bring chaos and toxicity into our lives.Over the years in doing this work, I have spoken with sad and lonely people that would rather be in an unloving partnership, than be on their own.  The paralyzing fear that they will never have love in their lives and that they do not really deserve to be loved acts as a barrier into connecting to real, unconditional love.

One of the reasons that I love this work so much, is that I can connect to Divine Source, Archangels, Angels, Guardians, Guides, Ancestors, and Animal Allies.  There is so much love and it is infinite.  I feel connected to the light workers, intuitives, and healers around the globe.  I have experienced such love from this work, that it fills up every cell in my body, my mind, and my spirit.  I feel such gratitude to be loved so deeply and to love so deeply.  Every day has meaning for me, and I choose to honor my physical health, as it is the temple that houses the soul. I feel reassured that when it is my time to go, that the love I feel here now, will be beyond my comprehension in life after life. 

But we are here now!  Love, connection, and support are here for us now.  Opening our energy to this,  having gratitude, offering forgiveness easily, and setting our ego aside will assist us in connecting with not only our Angels, Guides, and Ancestors, but to those on the same path, seeking connection around us.  When you come from a place of acceptance of others, and have a healthy sense of self (as in healthy boundaries) you will find that you meet the most amazing people and the world opens up for you. When you stay in fear, uncertainty, anxiousness, you will attract narcissists, enablers, and people that come from a place of living their lives as victims.  

Our purpose for being here is to love, learn, live, and thrive!  To fearlessly move through our lives, follow our intuition rather than question it, and to live in such deep gratitude that each day has meaning and value.  

If you are seeking something in your life, and find that you are filling the void with meaningless activity, and making excuses for not engaging with life, it is time to step into the light of Divine Love.  Having a meditation, yoga, or daily practice will help you to quiet your inner critic, and to begin to connect to the beautiful synchronicity of life.  But it is a practice and necessitates daily attention. You will grow that which you give your time. Give yourself over the the vast love in our Universe, and you will grow in love.  Give yourself over to fear, anxiety, anger uncertainty, greed, animosity jealousy, and you will find and attract it.

Set your intention each day to love, when you do so, you will find that it is progressively easier to be joyful.

Spirit also reminds me to share that staying away from TV shows that are negative, chaotic, or spotlight dysfunction, for our addiction to reality shows, and drama does and will distract us from our Divine connection.  It comes down to the small choices we make each day, living mindfully, or allowing the chaos of the world we live in define us.  Our path and our happiness IS in our hands, Dear Ones!   You either love, or you don't.  

I feel incredibly blessed to spend this time with you.

It is my intention that you will feel inspired to live each day to your best and fullest potential.  

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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