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Psychic Shira

Welcome. The vision for this Blog is to allow an opportunity for our Psychic Advisors to offer helpful guidance to improve your present and future life. This forum is also an excellent way to be introduced to an advisor if you have not had the opportunity to experience their services.


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Shira has been reading for 26 years, and is Certified in Energy Healing and Distance Healing Techniques.
She was trained in intuitive readings, beginning her path as an intuitive, as a teenager when she realized that not everyone saw, felt, or experienced the world the way she did.
Shira is Clairsentient, Clairaudient, and Clairvoyant, and believes that each of us is here to contribute to the greater good. Her empathic ability to see to the heart of the matter has aided her in bringing clarity to her clients for many years. She utilized her intuitive abilities as a Licensed Massage Therapist for 15 years, and believes in the body-mind-spirit connection. It is her pleasure to assist in bring you clarity and compassionate objectivity with your beautifully evolving life.


Let's Keep it About Love

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One of the things that get a Spiritual thumbs down in my work (and this from my Guides, Angels, and Ancestors!), is asking about the timelines for manipulative or vindictive reasons.  In my practice, I do keep it about love, patience, understanding, empathy, personal growth compassion, kindness, truth, and always honesty.

Compassionate honesty coming from a place of best and highest good for all concerned in a situation 

I have found that the way energy expands and contracts will release things at just the right timing and moment, when whatever it is being revealed is meant to teach, inspire, or validate in some way.  

I recently purchased succulent plants for a terrarium container, the colloquial name "campfire", the Crassula Capitella.  I have always had a green thumb, and been able to grow anything easily.  Succulents are some of my favorites!   I planted two plants in the same terrarium, leaving space for expansion, and movement.  I placed them in a warm and sunny spot, told them I loved them, offered them Reiki to help them settle in nicely, and dropped in a couple of ice cubes to slowly water them (you do this with orchids as well).

When I planted them, the primary vertical column of each plant was growing in opposite directions, three days later, they were practically embracing one another, winding comfortably around each other, and looking very healthy.

You and I can learn a great deal from nature, for when you take manipulation out of the equation, beautiful and magical things do happen.

Asking for the timelines for other people, especially to ease your anxiety over a situation, needs to have a DO NOT ENTER sign preceding it.  You have enough in managing and taking care of your life, and in being self-regulating.  Looking at timelines for see when  someone is going to jail, getting engaged, breaking up, losing their job, end of life, or coming from any negative tangent regarding someone outside yourself, is Spiritually indictable. The motive?  Manipulation, revenge, anger, or wanting to give consequence a belligerent shove in the direction you feel things should move.

Let your life represent love, honor, and self-regulation!  Stop looking at others, and start looking at yourself. Think of missed opportunities that are all around you, if your eyes and intention are focused on someone outside yourself, you are missing the gifts that Divine Energy has placed around you.  The consequence of inserting yourself into another's situation is that it can boomerang back to you, with you being the object of another's focus.  

The idea of having your life dissected for all to see is uncomfortable to say the least!  

This is your journey, and a beautiful one it is, pay attention and reap the positive results.  

When you do find yourself wanting to manipulate a situation, let go, get right back into your own life lessons.  Be the best you, that YOU can be!

Thank you for sharing this time together.  I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Symptoms of a Toxic Relationship

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.  It is a joy to connect with you.

Toxic Relationships can cause a number of different symptoms.  It has been theorized  in sleep studies that the better your relationship the more easily you rest and sleep, this falls into the category of sleep disruption separate and apart from sleep apnea. If your relationship has you in protective mode, that does not cease during your slumber, and prevents you from getting into a positive rest cycle.

The more toxic your relationship, the more fatigued you are from poor sleep.

Other symptoms of a toxic relationship:

Afraid to express your opinion lest you receive judgement of negative feedback.

Feeling in ill health

Tired all the time, cannot get restored

Do not want people coming into your home

Loss of self confidence and self esteem

Fear of failure and trying new things

Unable to gauge how much social energy you have from day-to-day

Staying in, when you used to go out and spend time with friends.

Gets sick more easily

Physical pain, migraines, feeling generally achey

Tendency to turn towards alcohol an other substances to cope

Generalized Anxiety

Panic attacks that occur randomly

Cannot think clearly

Mood swings

What is your positive interaction to negative interaction ratio?

You can also tell if the relationship you are in is toxic by the positive to negative interaction ratio.

If 7 out of 10 interactions are positive, this is considered a healthy ratio and you have a fairly loving and level relationship.

If you fall at the lower spectrum, say 3 out of ten being positive, then you may be in a toxic relationship.

The descending spiral may stay innocuously enough, but if you do not catch the declining love and empathy you may find yourself in a negative pattern.  It becomes more familiar to avoid each other, being affectionate, or even going to the extreme of working different shifts so you do not have to be in the same bed together.

Find yourself filtering everything that you say around your romantic partner or avoiding personal phone calls as you do not want them listening?

The fear of judgement can ease in, and begin to create a situation where you hyper-filter everything. You may even find yourself avoiding gatherings with your in laws rather than having to explain just how unhappy you really are.

There is healing and recovery and it starts with you.

Start with your physical health, getting your health back on track will help you to become stronger mentally as well.

Get help from a professional.  Find a good therapist to help you process the fall out from your relationship and start to heal.

Think about whether or not you really want to stay in the relationship, set the financial aspect aside when you do so.

Spend time with only positive, loving friends and family. When you do this your energy improves, too.

If you want to stay in the relationship, and after you have gone through individualized therapy.  see if your romantic partner is willing to go through couples therapy.  If they are unwilling to change, stop blaming you for the problems you are experiencing as a couple, or are still not investing in a positive way in the relationship, very likely things will not change.

If you do have a spouse/romantic partner willing to do the work, you can flip this relationship to being loving.  Be prepared to roll up your sleeves and do the work.  The transformation of a toxic relationship takes time.  Everyday that you hold positive change and initiate new patterns is a win.

Be honest enough with yourself to make the right decision, once you have made up your mind, stay the course.  It is time to get off the fence,

Thank you for sharing this time together. I love you and I believe in you.

Please do subscribe and share, let us send the healing forward together.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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You are Loved

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Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a joy to connect with you.  Thank you for subscribing and sharing.

In my communication with Spirit the overwhelming message is YOU ARE LOVED.

You have love behind, to the side, above, below, and in front of you.

The trouble comes when you and I create blockages so that it is not seen that there is love and validation all around you.  Sometimes this love comes as a no, or a redirection.  Having love around does not mean that you get what we envision, rather that you trust in Divine Source, and stay in your own learning and growth curve.  Learning to step out of your way, and stop creating barriers to having unconditional love fully infuse your reality, is often your greatest challenge.  This is an opportunity to see that there is something greater for you!  The Universe has big plans for you; let go of your own agenda and let it flow into your life.

This does not mean letting go of ownership and personal responsibility, be honest about your life!

It does mean that you put in your sweat equity, and Spirit does their part.   This is a collaboration, not a solo act.  

You are loved, loved beyond human comprehension, loved beyond measure, and the ability to feel the magnitude of this love.  When you do permit yourself to feel it, it floods you with such an uplifting energy, that words are likely to fail you.

The first time that I encountered and Angel, all my words failed me, and I felt such love that all the questions I had wanted to ask completely left my mind.  It was my job to receive the healing being given. I have had other opportunities to ask questions since, but that feeling of being immersed in Sacred Healing Love or Quantum Love Energy (terminology which I have coined),  changed me for the better.

Knowing how deeply and unconditionally you and I are loved, I set fear and the lower state emotions side, and walk each day in the assurance that it will manifest in the ways that you and I need it (rather than want it).

You are loved. Forever. Always, Unconditionally.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  Like what you are reading?  Please do subscribe so you get notification of my blog straight to your inbox. Please do share for those in need of love, support, and encouragement.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Timelines and Exponential Complexity

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a pleasure to connect with you.  Than you for subscribing and sharing!

Timelines are complicated, the more people involved, the greater the possibility it can skew and change.  Whether is shortens or lengthens, the more facets, the odds for a timeline to change becomes greater.

Example:  2 people involved=4 possible timeline changes per second

                3 involved=9 possible timeline changes per second

                4 involved=16 possible timeline changes per second

           15 involved=225 possible timeline changes per second

And the odds continue to increase, making it more likely that the timeline will shift, given that things are not solely in our hands.  

Timelines take away from you and I taking action in our lives and being passengers, rather than in the driver's seat.

It is tempting to take the easy way out and ask for a timeline, for if it does not manifest, then it was not your fault, and you are off the hook (and feeling perhaps even like the victim!).  Pointing the finger at anyone but yourself if not the solution here, taking ownership and action as a proactive participant in your life does have a positive impact.  It takes you out of neutral and puts your life back into drive.

If you need closure, and to step away, please do so!  Move forward in your life knowing that closure comes from you, for only you can make the determination to accept it.

If you have been afraid of the truth, open yourself to being willing to hear it, see it, or know it.  Make a wise decision from this place.  Own the truth, and learn from it, and do not let yourself fall into the "WHY ALWAYS ME?"  of it.

If you have cancer, you refrain from asking the doctor for a fixed in stone date of when you will be well again.  You look at what you CAN do to get well, and that is where you place your energy.  

That is one of the questions that I will not ask Spirit, when someone is going to pass, for it is often asked with a negative intention.

Let your life represent love, truth, honesty, patience, and ownership of you.  If you are in a marriage going nowhere, take action, figure out if you want to work at seeking counseling, or walking away from the pairing. 

At a job you have outgrown?  Take action, get additional education, or do something, to get a better job.

Legal issues?  File your things on time, or if this is a matter of waiting for something or someone to go to trial, refrain from forcing a timeline into the issue.

When you focus on timelines, it takes energy away from you taking action and ownership.

Instead of asking for timelines in your reading, ask instead, "Is this a good situation for me?  Is it in my best interest to step away from this?  Have I been manipulative without meaning to in this scenario?  Am I pushing my agenda too hard?  I am self sabotaging?"

Spirit advises:  Stop asking when!  You are missing the blessings I have placed around you now, yes, right this moment, and the next, and the next.

I would love to see a bumper sticker that says "I have grown past the need for timelines!"

Your intention is more powerful that you know, use your power wisely, and watch your life unfold in front of you.

Thank you for this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

I am proud of you for moving past timelines and into real personal growth, abundance, and change.

Please subscribe and share and let's spread the healing.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Life Hacks for Raising Sons

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Welcome to my new and returning readers.  Thank you for sharing and subscribing!  It is a joy to share Sacred Space with you.

This is the second part of lessons to teach our children for successful and fulfilling lives.  I have 3 children, 2 daughters and a son, all of whom have graduated from University, and are successfully launched on their own.  They are responsible, thoughtful,intelligent, and dynamic world citizens.  They are loving parents to their animals as well. It was well worth the time and effort to help get them to successful adulthood.

Here are essential things to teach our sons:

1.  Learn to manage your resources wisely:  teach your sons in their teens how to balance a checkbook, and to save money.  Encourage them to think about how they are spending, and to be fiscally responsible. You want them to have a god credit score so they can purchase  a home, car, and not be prohibited by black marks on their credit history.  Talk about credit cards, using them mindfully, and paying them off.

2. Be a loving and supportive spouse:  demonstrate to them what a good spouse does in doing their share of the chores, keeping their promises, being faithful, patient, and kind.  Show them what it is to be a loving parent as well.  Teach them about being a proactive communicator, rather than holding things in, and do remind them that being part of a couple or a family means that they are not the center of the Universe.  There is saying and I have found that it holds true, "Mother's raise their daughters and love their sons."

How would you want to be treated as a spouse?  Dialogue and show your sons what this looks and feels like. 

3. Cooking: Teach them to be proficient cooks, to know how to shop for groceries, and do a proper kitchen clean up.

4. Ethics:  Raise sons that are honest and law abiding.  Every parent's worst nightmare is their child dying or going to jail.  Teach your sons right from wrong, and instill in them the strength to stand by these values in the face of peer pressure and other life issues.

5. Give them a foundation of faith of some kind: Whether it is Spiritual or a particular religion, having a Spiritual platform to make guide your life and assist in making wise decisions gives your son a strong foundation to build upon.  Should he choose to deviate from the family religion, and does so according to his beliefs, please support him.

6. Emote:  Raise your son to be in touch with his feelings, and to be able to talk about them.  Encourage them to communicate before something becomes an issue, and create space for these conversations to occur.  Make time to sit down across from your son and talk about their day or week.  By doing this, they see that this is something that is valued, and it takes root in their lives.

7. Discipline: Work together on various projects and set goals together.  Work together to achieve them. Do this consistently, and you have raised a goal oriented and disciplined man,  Watch them soar to success because of your time and effort.  Praise them when they reach their goals, and make it a family celebration.

8.Friends:  Talk to your son about him as having the same reputation as the friends he has in his life.  Choosing friends wisely is one of the big life lessons, and often where difficulties in life can ensue.  Show your son by making positive friend choices yourself!   

9. Sexual responsibility: So much focus is placed on girls being responsible, that our sons seem to be able to be immune to this responsibility.  Talk about the reasons that you wait to be intimate, and how being active soon can change the dynamic.  The point is to talk about it together, and give your son a responsible foundation for becoming a man.

10. Listening:  Teach your son to be a good listener, and to hear rather than try to "fix" the situation.  Be a positive listener to your son, and show him what it is to be listened to with empathy, and genuine connection.

11. How to deal with negative emotions:  Another major area, please talk to your son about the long term affects of being angry, and emitting negative emotions.  Let him know that he has safe space with you to discuss them before they become an issue.

12. Love: Teach your son to love unconditionally. This is something that is imprinted or patterned.  Love shows up!

13. Confidence: Instill in your son a sense of confidence so he does not look for validation solely outside himself.  

14. Learn from mistakes:  You and I learn from our mistakes, let your son know that he does not have to be perfect or strive for perfection.  Making mistakes is part of being successful, and he will grow in wisdom and learn greatly from them.  It is how he handles his mistakes, both in action and mentally, that matters.  Talk about positive strategies, and as situations arise.  Share how you have learned from yours.

15. Keep I love you and I am proud of you separate: When you and I say as a parent I love you and I am so proud of you, it can equivocate our love with that of them achieving a certain performance standard.  Keep these two statement apart.  This leads to a successful, happy, and secure man.

16.Sobriety:  Every parent dreads the drug and alcohol talk.  Talking about it is one thing, but demonstrating it is another.  Refrain from being under the influence with your son. This is especially true for same gender parent!  

17. Be politically aware:  Vote, know the issues, and be part of the solution, not the problem.  Take your kids to the polling station with you.  Let them learn first hand how important it is to be proactive and have your voice and vote count.

Let us all work together to encourage strong and successful boys to men. Being a parent is the best and most challenging role we will have in life.  Raise sons that are loving, awake, and aware world citizens and watch them excel!  Nothing feels better than that!

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Teach our Daughters Well!

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for liking, subscribing, and sharing, I appreciate it.  This is Sacred Space, our time together.

This is to all the parents that have daughters, having two myself, these are things that I wish I would have taught them as well as teachings that took root.  They are listed in no particular order.

1.  Be strong within yourself, rather than seek validation from those around you. 

2.  Don't let gender assignments stop you from going for your goals.  Every subsequent generation blurs the lines between traditional gender roles.

3.  Get your education and your University degree, you are investing in yourself.  You meet and network with other successful people in an academic environment.

4.  Before you get married, if you choose to get married, live by yourself, and be financially independent.  Get a taste of supporting yourself, and learn from a pragmatic perspective how to manage your resources.

5.  When going out on a date with someone new, have your phone fully charged, and meet your date at the venue.  Until you know them better, meet them at restaurants, movies, etc..

6.  Invest in your health, get regular check ups, dental cleanings, and take care of yourself.  Do nurturing things, manicures, pedicures, massages, and get egular exercise.

7. Learn how to process stress, and navigate your way through challenging situations. Learn how to problem solve, rather than placate others and give away your power.

8. Know that all women are not meant to have children.  If you are drawn to living a life without bearing children, you are in good company, there are more women in their late twenties and thirties opting out of becoming parents for having the freedom to travel, and live a life unencumbered with human dependents.  Animals seem to be increasingly popular in place of kids, and both men and women are marrying later in life.

9. Let your relationship with your parents move into that of friendship as an adult living on your own. If you choose to or have to live at home, realize that you still have to abide by the rules of the house, as well as contribute financially.

10.Listen to your friends and family regarding the people you are dating. They will see a side of your potential mate that you do not, love you, and your best interest at heart.  You do not need their approval to date, but if it gets serious, and they are persona non grata, that creates problems in the future for the two of you.

11. Be financially savvy, invest early into IRA, Money Market Funds, and other saving measures.  Monitor your credit score, so that you can purchase a home, car, or have excellent credit to live the best life possible.  A good credit rating even determines your auto insurance and life insurance rates. If you choose to settle down, make sure that you mate has a strong credit rating so you can dream and build big together.

12. Eat healthfully, stay away from processed food for the healthiest skin and to retain your yourthfulness. Take care of your skin from the inside out. 

13. Cultivate empathy, compassion, love, and healthy boundaries.  Having healthy boundaries in life can go a long way towards positive laws of attraction.  

14. Practice positive mental hygiene. Learn to flow with gratitude rather than hanging onto disappointments.  Forgive easily, so that you are free, and realize that closure in any situation comes from YOU, rather than people outside of you.

15. Cultivate the intuition for your life, rather than simply being told what to do.  Know what you value, believe, feel, need, want, and cherish. Follow your intuition.

16. Stay sober!  Addiction is no way to cope, it merely numbs you to reality, and you cannot be your best if you are seeing things from a warped of blurry perspective.  Face life head on and addiction free!

17. Your vote counts, turning a blind eye to local and world politics and situations does not serve you.  Open your perspective to be a world citizen, and stand for the things in which you believe!  This is also true for having a spiritual basis, know where you stand, what you believe, and follow it.

Thank your for sharing this time together.  I love you and I believe in you.

Thank you for raising daughters mindfully, lovingly, and thoughtfully.

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Reside in love always.

In Divine Truth and Love, 

Shira <3

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Amazing Healing Crystals

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Welcome to my new and returning readings. Thank you for subscribing and sharing my blogs.  It is a joy to share sacred space with you.

One of my passions in life is working with crystals.  I have been rock hounding since I was a kid, and the child in me still finds them fascinating.  I have a dog that is a rock hound as well, she brings me rocks to add to me crystal altars in my office.  Our shared interest is one of the many things that I love about her.  

You are aware of the divas of the crystal world, Amethyst, Emerald, Garnet, Fluorite, and lovely Rutilated Quartz.

Some of my favorites, though, are inauspiciously dressed in brown, black and dull reds, but have amazing healing properties.  I use them in my healing practice and have used them for my own health and well being for over 50 years.  

Willemite:  Discovered in 1830 and name after William I of the Netherlands, this zinc silicate mineral, with red and brown rhombohedral crystals (think of a 3 dimensional cube at an angle), is one of the category of crystal that fluoresces under short wave UV light. It is used in some top shelf mineral makeups for it fluorescing qualities. It is often found in matrix with Zincite, Franklinite, and Orbicular calcite. You can carry a small specimen with you or simply place it on your office desk.  Going for a job interview? Place it in your purse or briefcase to help ease you nerves. It comes in more than 4 forms and colors.

Here are a few of it's healing properties:

Clears creative blocks for writers and artists

Renews lost relationships OR brings healing closure to them

Helps to connect to the astral plane for psychic intuition cultivation

Eases nerves and stress

Helps to alleviate addiction issues


Aragonite is a calcium carbonate and it is created from fresh and salt water precipitation.  Finding it near bodies of water is quite common.  It is Orthorombic (a rectangular prism), and it comes in many different forms.  It is a reddish brown, and a strong healer. Dull rather than shiny due to the striations from the twin interior access.

I have an Aragonite sphere in my office, and it is offers a supportive, grounding energy.  If you are going through a divorce, or you are in transition from a stressful job to a healthy work situation, inauspicious Aragonite can help you. This also have fluorescing properties under short wave UV lights.  Wear it in a ring, or carry as a pocket stone to assist you in feeling grounded in any situation.  Meeting your future in laws for the first time?  Wear an aragonite pendant to make it a low stress meeting.

Here are a few of it's healing properties:

Alleviates environmental stress

Supports the lower 3 chakras

Supports in stressful home and work situations.

Assists in easing transitions.

Brings out the truth in any situation (radionic)

Snowflake Obsidian:

This is a silicon dioxide, with with white inclusions.  Thus, looking like snowflakes!  It was first discovered in Ethiopia by Obsius, 77 AD (he was a Roman Emporer). It is widely seen in Mesoamerica  in the form of arrowheads.This is a volcanic crystal, igneous, which is produced when lava from an volcanic eruption is forced through small small spaces in rock and flows into water, going through a chemical metamorphasis (composed of magnesium and iron). Since it is derived from lava flow, it forms in sheets of glass-like substance. Differentiating Obsidian  from other crystals that over time, form as crystals.The lake bed where I go in Oregon to see it, is in the formation of an obsidian basin, as it coated the lower surface of the lake, creating a beautiful black sheen. (it is illegal in most areas to take obsidian, so be sure to purchase mineral rights for the day, and get permission for specific areas!) There are many distinct colors of obsidian, one of the most beautiful being green. Please be careful as the edges on Obsidian can be quite sharp and in some cases, cut your skin (in it's non tumbled form)  Wear in the form of jewelry or place a speciman in the central part of your home, along with a Hiimalayan salt lamp to keep you home loving, pure, and positively charged.  Great to have where there is heavy traffic with children and animals.

Here are a few of it's healing properties:

Grounding stone and associated with cleansing the environment

Especially calming to the 2nd and 4th chakras

Used to dispel negative Spiritual energy before it can take root.  If you already have an existing Spiritual issue, you will need to couple with black tourmaline or a crystal that rid your space of negative energy.

Brings any unhealthy or addictive issues to the forefront so you can work with them.

You and I are in alliance with the healing crystals and minerals in our world.  I find the structural and chemical properties remarkable.  I have a healthy respect, and in fact, awe, for the gifts of Mother Earth. Let us use her resources wisely, and ever in gratitude, offer that love back at every opportunity.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  

I love you and I believe in you.

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In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Paranormal Side-Effects

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for sharing and subscribing to my blog. You and I meet here in loving connection and sacred space.

I consistently get calls with you asking about paranormal activity in your home(s).  Paranormal activity can range from oppressive to uplifting and validating.  I am involved with paranormal groups that work with EVP's, SLS /SLR Cameras, REM Pods, DR 60 recordings,whose goal is to not only gather proof of life-after-life, but to help cross earthbound energies into the light and to help them move on.  All of us that are involved, offer prayers for those who whom need helping crossing over.  

Having done house clearings and blessings for many years, here is a list of what could be paranormal activity in your home:

Feeling depressed and drained

Poor sleep

Having things moved from where you remember setting them

Cabinets/drawers opening and shutting

An unusual number of accidents in the home

Headaches coming along suddenly

 A feeling of heaviness in the home

Seeing spirit orbs of different sizes and colors

Hearing voices, but nobody is there

Seeing things in your peripheral vision

Hearing knocks, bumps, or sounds your cannot account for rationally

A change in temperature, getting colder or hotter suddenly

The sensation of being brushed or touched

Please do debunk before jumping to the conclusion that you have paranormal activity.  It does usually affect everyone in the home, including the animals, but there is usually one person that is affected more than the others.

There are times when spiritual energy comes around, that it is to let you know that you have protection and assistance from the other side, or to help you over a rough patch in your life.  When your loved ones are around you, it is a reassuring presence, and you will feel that your home is warm and full of affection.  

If you are a empath, or have gifts of mediumship, you can draw this spiritual activity to you, for if they know that you can hear, see, sense them, they will show up to communicate with you.

It is important if you are having activity to stay grounded in Divine Energy, work with you Angels, Guides, Ancestors, and Spiritual Team.

Do regular spiritual cleansings on your home, and if you have vehicles or a place of business, please do include them as well.

Unless you are grounded and really connected to Divine source, or are afraid, stay away from doing EVP's or using technology.  Never ever use a Ouija Board!  It invites in lower energy beings and can create more chaos than you can possibly imagine.

If you are afraid, it does make you vulnerable, so please do exercise caution.

I have worked many years to have a healthy relationship with Spirit, and always come from a place of respect.

Thank you for this time together. It is a joy to connect with you.

If I can assist you in looking at a potential paranormal situation, please give me a call.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Unrequited Love: How to Heal

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you! Thank you for Subscribing and sharing to my blog as well as the other amazing articles at Meet Your Psychic.

Spirit has directed me to dive into the topic of unrequited love.  Did you know that a whopping 80% of all calls into psychic services pertains to love and romance?

Very little is devoted to personal development, soul's purpose, career, spiritual direction, or life's purpose.  There is a great deal of emphasis placed on finding the one, getting married, living together or in the same place, or having a child together.  65% of the 80% pertains to unavailable relationships (married, or dating someone else), and the frustrations you are feeling with them, wanting to know when, why, how, and where.

If you find yourself in a holding pattern with your relationship or situation-ship, and have been waiting a long time for unrequited love to become reciprocal. It may be time to walk away or at the very least, take a giant step back and shift that energy into your own life.

The stress associated with this romantic issue can drain you emotionally, physically, and can create an unhealthy psychological (or mental) balance. It places a strain on your friend and family relationships, which can atrophy due to neglect.

This is especially true if you have children, and you find that your relationship with them has eroded due to the excessive attention you are giving the non-reciprocal relationship.  

The definition of unrequited: 

A lack of reciprocity, no return or reward especially in the case of love and romance.

So how do you know if you are experiencing unrequited love:

*You are putting in at least 70% of the work

*The only point of contact is from you to them.

*When you make plans together, they fail to show up.

*They place the failure to reciprocate on your shoulders, not theirs.

*When you do communicate, they have excuses and justifications with little regard for your feelings.

*They do not want to meet or interact with your friends of family or have you do the same with theirs.

If you find yourself in a situation such as this, give this an expiration date. Leaving things open ended can be quite painful, and leads to anger and resentment if this occurs over a prolonged period of time.

If they come around, and begin to to demonstrate commitment, wonderful!  Your patience paid off. 

If however, after, waiting, nothing is coming your way, give yourself permission to walk away.  Look at why you really have feelings for them in the first place.  Do you want this to work out because of all that you have invested? Or because you genuinely hope for a future with them?  Are you hanging in there so you can be the one to say "no thank you" and walk away from them?

Looking at your real motivation for continuing the effort can clear things up immediately for you, and you can begin the healing process.

Firstly forgive yourself for having invested so much in this person.

Secondly forgive them for not having reciprocated in the way you needed.

Thirdly offer gratitude for what you have learned about yourself.

and Fourth,'

have healthy boundaries and agreements with any further love interests prior to the deep investment you found yourself in with this person.  Let trust and reciprocity build between you over time, and let go of the script of the way you need the relationship to unfold.

Love will always be a popular topic, it has been since before the time of Cleopatra!  It is a timeless desire, whether you are 20 or 100 years of age.  

For each of you, I wish that you would have so much real and unconditional love in your lives, that you feel entirely loved and secure and do not question your value as a Divine Child.

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Self Sabotage: Prime Mover Anxiety

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a pleasure to connect with you! Thank you for subscribing and sharing.

Self sabotage is often a result of emotional overflow, which manifests as anxiety or fear.  Fear of losing someone that you love, anxiety over whether of not you are performing at your job well, or up to organizational standard (or above).  

When you and I go into emotional overflow, it means that we have too much emotion to process.  

Here are some of the ways it can manifest in your life:

Having an acute histamine response-feeling itchy, or some sort of acute allergic reaction or response.

Outbursts of anger or feeling impatient-small instances trigger anger or impatience with yourself and others.

Crying-you find yourself crying more easily than before.

Passive/aggressive dialogue-you may find yourself unintentionally saying things that provoke those around you. This is a common form of emotional overflow and self sabotage.  This comes from repressed feelings, where you have been unable to express yourself for a block of time and it overloads your vital organs with stress hormones.  This is how emotional overflow occurs.

Extreme fatigue-you simply cannot get moving, you may feel lethargic, and that you are unable to relate to those around you without it being draining to you.

Feeling Jittery or like you cannot get to sleep-there is so much going on in your mind, that you literally feel jittery and ungrounded.  You are taking even the smallest best intentioned actions around you as suspicious.

Injury or physical pain of some kind-low back pain, kink in your neck, headache, or generalized achiness,  

Inability to focus or verbally articulate-You have so many emotions running through you, that you energetically do not know where to start! You may find yourself searching for even the most common place words.

So how do you prevent Emotional Overflow?

Daily Mental Hygiene-How am I feeling?  Is there something that has happened that is occupying my mind? Through daily mental hygiene you keep your thoughts and energy sharp, so you can make positive decisions, acting wisely.

Exercise-walk, run, swim, stretch, get it out of your system.

Paint, draw, sculpt, write-use your creativity to release the overflow of emotions that you are feeling.  

Meditate or have a mindfulness practice-Use this daily practice to be self-aware, and to release the toxicity. Invite in love, abundance, forgiveness, peace, and being grounded in love.


Social Media is NOT the place to express what you are feeling!  You would not go to a party or gathering with acute influenza.  You do not want to get anyone else sick, and are thoughtful enough to stay home and get well.  Sharing your negative emotional overflow is contagious to those around you.  Be mindful of what you are leaving with others, let it be about love, kindness, empathy, and thoughtfulness. If you feel the need to share, speak to a qualified counselor or therapist, whom can help you navigate these emotions.

Thank you for sharing this time together, many blessings to each of you!  

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Feeling Lost and Seeking Direction?

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for subscribing, sharing, and liking. It is a joy to connect with each of you.

Let's talk about feeling lost without a compass.  Not being sure which direction you should move, and wishing that you even had the ability to overcome your own inertia.  Let's do a 360 and investigate some life aspects that could be dragging down your Chi, or life force energy.

Let's do it old school and count down  ten to the number one culprit!

10. Over committing yourself: Filling your schedule up will only confuse the issue.  The key word here is SIMPLIFY.  Making things more complex may make you feel like you are doing better, but this illusion will only last for a short time. Only this time you are up to your eyeballs in commitments that you cannot step away from.

9. Watching your phone every second of the day:  It is physically draining to be responding to every text, every email, every call, all day, everyday.  It takes away from your ability to focus and to have a calm, stable, nervous system. Keep your phone away from your bedside (if you can!), so that you give yourself some social "downtime."

8. Impulse purchases: This is one form of distraction that you utilize when you are feeling lost or seeking direction.  Do you need the energy twirler from the store?  Will you really use it?  Or is it just good money down the drain, and and item for your next garage sale?

Have a list when you go shopping, and a budget, to help prevent purchases that make you wonder "what was I thinking?" later on. 

7. Impulse or emotional eating: Rather than go for peanut butter cups or comfort food, try a cup of tea or water first.  If you do feel the need to nosh, have healthy items prepped to eat in the refrigerator or cupboards. Eat a small amount, see how you feel. It is easy to fill the void with emotional eating.  Do a 360 and look at what is bothering you. Come up with a plan for resolving this, so that you are moving into having purpose and direction in your life again.

6. Binging with any form of movie or television series:  Nothing distracts like watching a television or movie series in it's entirety! Going into fantasy mode, or living through another's eyes and reality do take away from your dilemma of feeling lost. In the long run, though, it does more harm than good.

5. Using drug and alcohol to fill the void: This only digs the hole deeper, for when you are sober and back to reality, you can feel even more lost than before, and very likely lost and alone. Lean more in the arena of self regulation, to begin to regain your strength and direction.

4. Call your friends and eat up their time with your unhappiness: If you want to keep your friends, please keep these calls to a minimum and do ask how they are doing, too.  It is when you step outside yourself and show empathy, love, and concern for others that you start to regain the use of your own compass. If you are legitimately feel low, and that you are having difficulty going on, please see a therapist that can address these concerns with you. Your friends are not your therapist, and cannot give you the tools you need to overcome feelings of being blue or depressed.

3. Curling up under the covers rather than engaging with life:  When you feel the need to curl up and hide, take a walk, get moving, connect with your physical strength and vitality.  Working in the yard or garden, connecting to Mother Earth cam help to ground you, giving you a feeling of purpose.

2.Procrastinating:  Telling yourself that you will take care of it tomorrow, and that one more day won't hurt.  Stepping up and attending to the details of your life DO help to bring you a sense of purpose and accomplishment.  Do this everyday!  Do this everyday for the next moth and you will have moved forward, and found the rhythm of your life.

And here is our number one!  Before we hit our top stagnation culprit, if you like what you are reading, please SUBSCRIBE to my blog and that of the other readers at Meet Your Psychic that you read on a regular basis!

1. Comparing your life to others:  They are so successful, why can't I be that successful?  What's wrong with me?  Time is passing and things are not getting better!  Step away from comparing yourself to others for it only leads to you feeling more isolated.  Think about what you do what your life to be, at it's highest ideal. If you are single, what ideally is your perfect mate? What financial status do you personally envision for your life? What is the quality of your friendships?  Rather than have happiness as the focus, look at where you really want your life to be, Base this on your vision, and set aside the opinions of those around you. Step away from being a victim to someone that is empowered and focused on your dreams, goals, and vision for your life.  Set daily goals towards achieving the life that you want.

If you read all the way through, you have already started to change your life, for you took the time to look at he 10 major blockages to moving forward.  Congratulations!  

Thank you for sharing this time together. Many blessings as you move forward as an empowered and inspired YOU.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Social Media's Illusion: Selling Reality

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Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a pleasure to connect with you. Thank you for subscribing and sharing.

Social media is something that can be easily manipulated to denote a false reality or what you want others to think.  

The phrase "fake it until you make it" applies!  

You control your Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram content.  You can delete, edit, tweek with the picture quality, create videos,  and even post and change relationship status.  Employers will search your social media score and to see how your personal life will plug into their work environment.  There are sites now where you social media score can be assessed  by anyone, simply by typing in a first and last name. Once you have posted something, it is out there on the net, for GOOD.

How do you want to be known, FOREVER?

Do this one thing today:  Plug in your name and look at the social media posts that pop up.  

It will really make you think about your self regulation, and the impression that you are leaving in terms of your reputation.

I have known people that are barely surviving paycheck to paycheck, yet post pictures of their latest new car, trip, or things to make their lives look more prestigious financially. I have also known couples on the verge of divorce, or where domestic violence is occurring, yet their social media shows a happy and loving home.  

Before you post to social media ask yourself these questions:

1. Whom do I hope to reach?

2. Am I trying to get attention from this?

3. Does this represent the real me or the person I want to be?

4. Will this attract negative or positive attention? Am I trying to get sympathy or praise?

5. Will this affect me professionally? Would I want my boss or colleagues to see this? 

6. Am I too under the influence to share this? (poor versus wise decisions)

7. Does this hurt anyone that I love?

8. Do I really want this to follow me the rest of my life?

9. How do I feel about others sharing this without my consent?

If you cannot share something on social media after going through this checklist, excellent, you are beginning to use your Wisdom, and can begin to share from a place of love, leaving a positive vibe to those whom come in contact with it.

Be Mindful in sharing, and let your social media posts count for some form of healing or balance in our world.  Stand for something worthy in your social media, rather than share pictures of the shots you took at the bar last night with your pals. 

Social media is a gift, let us begin to treat it that way my friends.  

You and I are blessed to have this outlet for our creativity, love, and in being a world citizen.  Let's make this a more loving planet together!

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Obsession: Letting go, moving forward.

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Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a privilege to connect with you. Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.

One of my FAQ's: How do I let go of someone in my life that has clearly moved on without me?  How do I move past the heartbreak? or I need CLOSURE.

When you have someone firmly in your skin, part of every heartbeat, in every other thought, and wondering where they are, and following their social media like a religious ritual, you are stuck in a circuit that is broken in one way: The only difference between you and the object of your attention and smoking cessation, is exactly none!  You are addicted to peeking in on their lives, feeling like you can quit anytime if you really wanted to stop.


and begin to place that energy into yourself, and into spending time with others.  

FOCUS on something else.

Now, if you have ever been on the left in the dust scenario, with a fickle and thoughtless ex husband, wife, or romantic partner, you know just how challenging this can be to move on.

I empathize, for you and I have all had something or someone that we were determined to have closure with, or some sense to the amount of time and energy that was poured into them (without their consent or knowledge!).

This will feel very uncomfortable for awhile, stick to it, and you are well on your way to recovery:

1. Delete their number from your phone (unless you are in a co-parenting situation).  If you are in a co-parenting scenario, only contact them with the specific purpose of making arrangements regarding the kids.  Keep a healthy boundary so that you can move on!

2. Block all of their social media:  Stop looking at their pictures, posts, comments on other people's entries, the key is to STOP, cold 


3. Refrain from asking mutual friends about them: Your friends are likely dreading the question, "what are they doing today?' Who were they with this weekend?  How are they doing really?  Are they miserable without me?"  

4. Take down any reminders in your home of them and delete these pictures from your social media:  Get a box, place in this box all pictures of the two of you (unless it is a family photo), any gifts that they gave you, any cards, flowers you dried and saved.  Divest yourself of any and all remnants of the relationship. Seal the box up, and place it somewhere, out of sight until you are ready to get rid of these things for good.

5. Closure is something you need to do for yourself:  Even if you were able to say, exactly what you wanted to say to them, it does not hit the core of your need to justify all the time, energy, and effort you placed and are still placing in the relationship.  Closure begins with you accepting that things are over, done, finished.  Your life is now!  Not in the past.

6. Stop expecting the apology from them:  Regardless of what they say, and even if they said it in exactly the way you wanted them to, it will not be enough.  You are lucky to get any form of apology, accept it, and move forward.

7. Wish them well, rather than being miserable or harmed:  In so many cases over the years, especially in relationships where the person whom you loved is with someone else, it is easy to hope they are as miserable and lonely as yourself.  Wishing them unhappiness only leads to further sadness for you.  Forgive them as often as you need to until you have moved on fully.

8.Get active: Working out changes your focus back to your physical well being, and slowly shifts your mind to new people, pursuits, and happiness.

9. Stop going places they frequent just to see them: For awhile, do stop going to shared haunts, and find new places to spend time with your friends. Until you are stronger in your resolve to move forward, it is all too tempting to go just for the purpose of seeing them.

10. Get a new mattress: If you lived together, and are still using the same mattress from the time that you were together, get rid of it. Obtain a new one!  Change all components of the bedding as needed, too. It is time to reset this most basic pattern in your life. Have a clean slate for the next romantic partner.  

11. They may still be strongly in your dreams: When this happens, this is the residual energetic connection, an effigy, but not the real thing.  The imprint of your connection is still there, like your footprint in  the sand when walking on the beach.  It represents your past, not your future.

12 Let at last 6 months to a year pass before you think about being friends with them: Going from romance to the friend zone is awkward, and can be quite painful.  Heal first, see your future without them, and if you are meant to be friends, it will manifest.  

13. Offer gratitude for what you have learned: You learned a great deal about yourself from this relationship. Be grateful for this gift in moving forward,

14. Forgive both yourself and them: Forgive yourself for giving so much time and effort over to them, losing yourself in the process. Forgive them for having hurt you.  In this way you will be permanently free.

15. Refrain from talking badly about them to others: If they are referred to, make as little of it as possible, and ask for the topic of conversation to move on.

Letting go, and moving on can be a heart breaking process. The validation that you need to receive comes from you, rather than the object of your desire.  Love yourself enough to break this cycle, as in most cases, the person that is on the receiving end of your attention, no longer thinks of you, but has moved on. If you are still dreaming of them, this may take some time to alleviate. This is coming from your subconscious whom is reticent to throw in the towel.  

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

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Psychic Flow: A Primer

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for subscribing, sharing, and liking!  It is a joy to connect with you.

I have been training in the psychic arts, first with my grandmother at 13 until her passing, and then subsequently adding to my accreditations throughout the course of my life and work.

This is to give you a snapshot of my life and work and how I have been able to stay in this work for so many years. I still have the same excitement, love, and passion that I did when I first started.  

Learning and staying in focus is a lifelong process, and one which I practice daily.  I do a number or exercises with pendulum, dowsing rods, and others based on nothing but focus and visualization.  I have a meditation practice in the morning and evening, include a walk or exercise in my routine (clears the mind!), and get enough sleep. I am finishing up a doctoral program. In the past year, I have taken, in addition to the coursework that I am currently finishing, Neuro Linguistic Programming, Therapeutic Journaling Therapy and Techniques, Animal Healing and Communication, and Canine Nutrition. In addition to this, I am working on my own system of Energy Healing, which will be revealed at a later date when it is ready to be presented as a modality to the healing community.  

Being an intuitive does not mean that we simply feel, but that as a psychic, that we work to keep our skills sharp, fresh, alive, and evolving.  It is not enough to merely acknowledge the abilities, but to take a hand with Spirit in evolving them. It is our responsibility as Psychics and Intuitives to stay connected to Spirit, and to continue to cultivate our relationship with our Angels, Guardians, Guides, Animal Allies, and Ancestors.  Even in Life after Life is is about relationships!

If you are considering working as a professional psychic, please note that it is a life long process and a lifestyle. While you do open and shut the door on your day (healthy boundaries!), to relay to Spirit that you are "off the clock" (and also make time for your family and friends, too!).

I am here to dispel the myth of the psychic with the crystal ball that you and I see in ads all the time in social media. While Crystal Balls are used as a means of scrying , it is a less common practice.  As a psychic, I apply my energy to be disciplined and focused in my work. When you focus, you set aside anything that is happening in your personal life, and discipline yourself to be present with the messages from the Divine.  

So how do you and I connect?

It is a matter of creating the space for Source to enter. Let me break this down:

As you and I create time to meditate, and focus on clearing the body/mind/spirit, we raise our energy.  Spirit modifies theirs and meets us in the space we have created for this connection.

Here is the process (for me at least!)

1. Find a quiet space where you will not be interrupted.

2. Sit up straight so keep your Chakras in alignment.

3. Go through and clear your energy from the previous day, utilize your breath in this, as you would in Yoga.

4. Once you feel clear, ask for any guidance from your Spiritual Support Team.


5. Wait for it to be revealed to you.

6. Write it down, adding any illustrations or images that came through.

7. Offer gratitude to your benefactors, Forgive those whom have harmed you and ask for forgiveness for those whom you have harmed (unintentional and intentionally).

8. Get up, smudge your space, and if you work from home, your home and all the animals and people there as well.  If you do not want to smudge, you can do a sound clearing.

Your focus in combination with our beloved Spiritual Mentors creates Sacred Space.  It is in Sacred Space that you do your work, connect with clients, and offer your readings.

Personal Life:

Your personal life needs to reflect "no drama" relationships and friendships.  This entails that you hold a firm boundary, and have a strong policy regarding drama in your home or life.  Learning to say NO, so that your YES counts is part of this process.  Once your friends and family know that you mean business, it becomes easy to regulate. 

And I eluded to Opening and Shutting the Door to each day...

Every morning, I open the doors for Spirit to enter, and every evening I close the door.  I actually say "Good Morning, I open the doors for the day!" and in the evening when I am signed off "Thank you for another wonderful day, I am closing the door for today's work."

Creating space for your family and friends is essential for a well-rounded and balanced life.  No man or woman is an Island, you create the life that you want to manifest!  You write the script, for you have the focus and discipline, to create space for life to flow for you and for you to resonate at higher vibrational levels. When you and I do our part, The Universe responds with an overwhelming YES, offering you support, guidance, patience, and love. Patience is a result of daily discipline and focus.

Self Employed or work for a Psychic Company?

Not all Psychic Companies are created equal. MYP was voted the top rated website and has worked to earn this reputation. MYP is an amazing place to work, with excellent leadership and experienced owners at the helm. We also have the best Customer Service staff!

I have the deepest respect and regard for all the readers associated with MYP, for they are carefully screened by the gifted and enlightened founders of this amazing company.

Do your research prior to making your decision, self employed or subcontractor .Talk to other people in the business, and read the reviews for the company for whom you are considering working.  

Thank you for sharing this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Truth and Love,

Shira <3

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Make Friends with CHANGE

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you!  Thank you for subscribing and sharing. 

Let's dive into the topic of CHANGE, the C word that so many of us dread.  For instance, you boyfriend or girlfriend talks to you about needing change in the relationship. If you are with the majority of readers, your mind skipped ahead to a negative outcome.  Change is often positive!  Chaos or change is the very nature of our world.  A trees loses it's leaves in the fall, and regains them in the spring. Bulbs in the ground go dormant until reawakened by the beginning of warm weather. Children grow from infancy to adulthood, with us celebrating their milestones!

Change is positive, for it is how you and I EVOLVE, grow, and thrive.  

Yet change is feared. You and I want things to stay the same, the status quo, predictable, consistent. 

But what if your life could be BETTER, more alive, more abundant, and more meaningful.

What if your friendships could be deeper and more fulfilling?

What is your career is thriving, growing, and developing?

What if you could go from dating to being engaged?

Or engaged to being married?

Or being married to having your first child?

Change is the Cosmic "what if" and is necessary. There is a season, and a time for everything and everyone.  We dance with the energy of the Universe, rather than fight it, staying in a constant state of retrograde (which we all know is tedious!). Let go of fear and be adventurous!

As humans we long for change, upgrades, and living thriving and vibrant lives.

Make change your friend, and watch the magic unfold.

What if?????

In Divine Love, Truth, and Change,

Shira <3

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