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Closure is Self Realized

​Bright Greetings,

Welcome to my returning and new readers.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing.  It is a joy to share Sacred Space with you.

The topic of closure comes into readings at least 80% of the time.  

If they would only apologize, explain themselves, ask for forgiveness, in the years that I have done this work, it is the same thing.  

Closure, real closure, comes from a place of self-reconciliation.  You can have your ex apologize, beg for forgiveness, and it still will not bring you closure unless you are ready to let go and move on.  It takes a tremendous amount of energy to hang onto a grudge.  It eats up your energy, zaps your creativity, alienates friends and family whom are tired of hearing about it, and erodes your work performance.  If you are so focused on "they owe me closure!" how can you progress and evolve yourself?

The fact is, that dating and relationships take two people actively engaged in the process of growing together.  When one starts to go missing , the relationship will start to falter, and then go flat.  Leaving the other to wonder, what happened?!

If you are looking for closure or a sincere apology from a narcissist, it simply does not happen, unless it is serving them.  

Closure comes from you learning how to let go and move on.  Often times it involves forgiving yourself for having invested so much energy into the situation.  If you are not receiving closure, the logical thing to do would be to walk away and stop giving your energy over.  The emotional self says, "hey maybe if I invest more of my energy, then they will see what they could lose, and apologize to me or make amends!"  It does not work this way, the more energy invest, the more closure you will need, Stop yourself before you are frustrated, angry, resentful, and  bitter!   

Let self regulation enter. This is no different than smoking cessation in that it is an addiction to a relationship or a person.  You replace the habit of investing yourself with something healthy such as working out at the gym, gardening, meditation, or doing something oriented to you.  It is a simple matter of the reassignment of energy.  Yes, it takes time, but each day gets easier and easier, until one day you wake up, and you have closure.  You no longer wake up thinking about them, wondering what they are doing, who are they with, do they miss you, will they ever really apologize, or regretting having hurt you.

You wake up and stop asking WHY, and realize how much has passed you by because of your obsession with the need for closure.

A dear friend of mine, let's call her Jill (whom has given me permission to share this with you, thank you!), had her husband abruptly pass away several years ago.  It was devastating to her, as she and he genuinely loved each other.  In the past few months of their marriage he had been less talkative, and seemed to be drifting in his energy.  She was to learn that he had missed several critical doctors appointments, feeling that he had time to address his heart issues.  In going through the bank statements, she noticed several charges to a women's store for things that had not made it home,  She found herself deeply upset with him, and was unable to get closure for this.  With Joe being gone for  several years, she sought professional help to get the closure that she needed.  It took some time, but she was able to let go, and know that Joe really did love her and only her. Recently, she ran into their God daughters whom thanked her and Joe for the gifts that he purchased them for their birthdays just days prior to his passing.  They shared how deeply they cherished these last lovely gifts.  The irony is that the closure was achieved prior to her finding out that it was innocent, and he had purchase them and given them to her sister to give to the girls on their birthdays.  

Life is simply too short and too precious to hang onto negative emotions and increase our stress.  It takes away from the joy, gratitude, and recognition of the small blessings that we have in our lives NOW.  Right now, 

If you find yourself seeking closure, know that it comes from you giving yourself permission to let go.  Every time that you think about it, let it go, replace it with something that does serve your life.  Offer gratitude that you are moving on, and finding your way back to happiness in your own life.  

The messages that I get from the other side are around forgiveness, love, kindness, compassion, and most importantly, that unless we receive closure here, in physical human form, we carry it over into the afterlife.  Yes, we are intended to clear our lessons here in this life! Right Now!  Today!  

Carrying unresolved issues into the afterlife slows down our soul's evolution.  I am involved with a group that works with ITC, basically using technology to verify messages and energies from the other side (life after life). Here are the most common messages:

I love you

We love you

Do not fear

You are loved and supported

Learn your lessons now

Appreciate the life that you have now

Love crosses with you

On my Mother-in-laws birthday, she said my husband's name, and then it was followed with a "We love you" in her voice.  He was able to receive this validating message from her that she knew that she was loved and missed, and return the sentiment in real time, this was from and EVP or Electronic Voice Phenomenon..  (I do not recommend this work for everyone,if you are the least bit afraid, I would not suggest it until you were feeling confident in your connection to the Spiritual Multiverse).

Thank you for sharing this time together.  

I love you and I believe in you.

Please do ask for closure in your prayers and meditation time Dear Ones. You will surely receive it.

In Divine Love and Truth,

Shira <3

Heyoka Empath of Life and Tests