Each party must give each other as well as themselves.
Read that again.
A person who has been hurt by someone else must be willing and able to release the other from the act that caused pain between you. The person who did the hurting must also forgive the other person, and then both people must forgive the role they played in whatever caused them sorrow.
Forgiveness has nothing to do with taking responsibility. It has to do with the energy of accountability and the willingness to love unconditionally. It is a real act of kindness and the center of what it means in being human.
You might not be fully responsible for a hurt you caused someone else if you didn't realize what you were harming. You are, however, accountable for the energy the damage created, and you need to transform that energy into a higher, lighter vibration. After all, all is for learning.
None of us are perfect. We make mistakes, even large ones. But, when we feel remorse for what we have done, that creates energy as well. We must sometimes sit in that energy for a while so that we may gain wisdom and understanding, but at some point, that energy needs to transform.
As any real psychic will tell you, all emotions have energy. Energy needs to keep moving, or else it gets stuck and stale. Forgiveness is slow-moving energy, but it needs to move. Forgiveness that stays in early stages will stifle you down and hold you back. You may see yourself repeating the same patterns over and over again. This is especially true if you have yet to forgive yourself for something you have done or allow to happen.
Sometimes the energy of unforgiven emotions gets passed on from generation to generation. This creates a toxic family line and family relationships. The longer it stays within the family, the more addiction and abusive relationships will form from carrying this energy. Soul work must be done in this case, especially energy work that is focused on the ancestral line. Working with psychics online may offer the best solution as they can provide you with more insight and energy healing to help the process.
When you feel that you are stuck in the energy of forgiveness, remind yourself that it takes time. If needed, seek a consultation with a psychic reader to figure out how to release that energy and raise your vibration. There may be some soul lessons you have yet to embrace or a soulmate that has yet to arrive to help you with your life path. Psychic readings can give you perspective and provide you with details on how to move forward with your life, one step at a time.