The arguments are productive.
Healthy conflict is at the heart of any relationship. Don't fear disagreement with your person of interest. Discord can make you understand the value of respecting each other's opinions and differences. It's only when one of you wants to diminish the other for the disagreements you share that trouble will arise. Learning to compromise will help you grow together as well as a couple. Also, the ability to take ownership of any mistakes and to forgive one another is a lesson in unconditional love.
You still have friends and other interests that are separate.
It is very healthy to spend time with other people and maintain other interests outside of a relationship. Outside time allows us to grow as individuals and gives us something to discuss outside of our relationship with our partner. We become more enriched when we learn from outside of our comfort zone. When we spend healthy time apart, we are more rounded and less dependent on each other to satisfy each other's needs.
There is trust.
Trust is the foundation for any stable relationship. Shared trust gives each other breathing room and opens up opportunities for the couple to expand their abundance on a multitude of levels. When you have shared faith in one another, there is a freedom to explore other aspects of yourself in whatever way it manifests, such as elevating your career, education, or relationship with siblings, children, and extended family. It can also help you build a community. Your world grows in many ways when there is a healthy relationship where trust has been established.
You can both be honest with each other without repercussions.
If you can share opinions with each other honestly without having to hold back, you are in a very healthy relationship. Not all couples can rise to this level of acceptance and intimacy. Being able to accept each other for who they are and accept themselves is not an easy accomplishment. It takes inner work from both individuals as well as together as a couple.
There is respect and support for each other's choices and opinions.
When we give each other support for our choices and decisions, then we are in a healthy and balanced relationship. Having shared values and principles can help us respect each other, but sometimes it can take more work if we come from entirely different mindsets. When we come from a place of respect, we are in a position to love one another.
We also don't have to be in love with each other's choices to show respect and support. Everyone has their path and obligations, and sometimes that may create friction or inconvenience for others. When we show empathy and understanding, we connect more deeply with our loved ones for choices we may not entirely agree with on the whole.
You are instinctively kind to one another.
Giving is not a chore for you, but something you do automatically. When you consider each other's needs and desires and do so in a matter that doesn't disavow your own, you are in a loving relationship. Kindness, in this sense, is both giving and receiving with a sense of gratitude for both the acting and reacting that transpires.
When a relationship lacks kindness, it is a sign that there is individual growth that needs to happen before you can grow together as a couple. Kindness should be at the center of your well-being and not just in your relationship.
You enjoy one another's company.
Being around one another is sheer pleasure, and you look forward to seeing each other when you are apart. The moments you spend together are valued, and you both feel refreshed when you are together. In a healthy relationship, there is no sense of dread in seeing one another even through any arguments or ups and downs. Once you have a vibrant connection, it is easier to maintain as long as you keep treasuring each other and nurturing your love for each other and the bond that you share.
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