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If you have dated, you may have encountered people who shared details of their "crazy ex" with you on the first date. They lament about how they were misunderstood, vilified, cheated on, or left abruptly on their own.
Years ago, I was set up on a blind date by well-meaning friends. Firstly, he showed up about 15 minutes late and talked the entire time about his ex-wife and how she had kicked him out with only a gym bag full of clothes. Even his family refused to take him in, and he lived in a hotel near his job. He shared how his high school sweetheart had cheated on him and how he was cursed in relationships.
His life was full of woes and injustices, all perpetrated upon him by his ex and his family. Later, I found out that he was not even a WEEK out of the relationship with the woman who had the common sense to send him packing. Now... After an hour of planning my escape and waiting for my girlfriend to call me, I was able to leave, listing him on my phone as No Thanks! I had taken the bus from work, and thankfully she came and picked me up, ending the uncomfortable date.
He did call to try to establish another date, but I did not pick up nor return his calls. When you encounter the "Crazy Ex Syndrome" in your dating life, look to yourself and the vibe you send to others. While mine was a blind date, I did attract this to some extent. I own that. This experience was valuable, and I made changes to my life where I began to radiate new energy, attracting a positive and growth-oriented romantic partner.
I did meet the love of my life due to a series of mediocre dates, to say the least! My husband was everything that I could want (and more) and was my best friend and greatest inspiration. He was a wonderful father, friend, and immensely talented. He died suddenly of a stroke over a decade ago but left a legacy of love that is still with me and my kids today.
Had I not experienced the CRAZY EX SYNDROME, I would never have met nor married my wonderful husband. I learned so much about myself from challenging dates. When you encounter this type of interaction, be thankful, for you will learn more about yourself than you know. You will apply this wisdom forward, grow, and be a better version of yourself. I am profoundly grateful for having this energy mirrored in front of me, for this is not who I am nor who I choose to be.
I realized in hindsight that being the family mediator that I had carried being the rescuer into my adult dating life. I was able to step away from this and find my power and confidence. You and I are responsible for our vibe, for what we attract, and for our growth and evolution.
This is stepping into your personal power! It feels amazing! The results will blow your mind! You begin to flow more with abundance than you ever have in your life. You make better decisions. You attract people that inspire you rather than drag you down. You begin to excel in all sectors of your life. Offer gratitude to the Universe for all the experiences that cross your path.
Indeed you have grown into the beautiful and amazing person that you are now because of it. Thank you for this time together.
I love you, and I believe in you.
In Divine Truth and Love,
Psychic Shira