If you are familiar with alternative spirituality and or have talked to a psychic before, chances are love for sure has come up and love spells are a staple in most spiritual worker's and professional spell caster's repertoire. Just doing a search on Google will give you endless results of DIY love spells, mantra's, chants and a slew of professional spell caster's some guaranteeing they can bring him back or that you can just kick your feet back, let them do all the work and be ready to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right in just a matter of days.
First off no one can guarantee you anything even the best of psychic's or spell caster's because the universe, your karma and certain situations on the physical surface you may be dealing with all play key parts in spell success. I am a personal believer that there is no spell cast or prayer that's prayed that does not get answered. we can pray for a good job and although we have a degree in a lucrative field the universe decides that to pay your bills you will work at a pet store or mechanic's shop. The universe answered and sees it as good for you because your boss who hired you is in debt to you from a past life and the universe chooses to have him pay his debt by hiring you, giving you a good salary and hours and loyalty, it's close to home so you can walk and save money etc.
A love spell or even working with a psychic in prayer and meditation to bring love works just the same but here's how to get the most out of a love spell whether you cast one yourself or hire a professional.
1.) You will only receive in a person what's going on within you and how you feel about yourself. If you were in a not so good place the love spell just may manifest itself in greater self love and appreciation.
I remember watching a video with one of my favorite Occult Youtuber's Magickal Lady Duchess and she says she many time gets clients who want a love spell or a return to me ritual done on a former lover or a current relationship but many times throughout the process towards the middle or the end the client does not even want the lover anymore because they've found deeper self love! If your love spell is answered this way please do not be disappointed but it was probably the universe's way to get you to love and tap into yourself first to even be able to truly love someone else, not use another human as a crutch, distraction etc.
2.) Look your best and put your best foot forward by investing in your grooming and fashion! So okay it is nice to just see inner beauty but we as humans are physical creatures and are stimulated by the physical among other things!
Look like what you want to attract! Invest in a wardrobe change , add some new jewelry to your look, get a makeover, Try dying your hair and getting a new cut, Start working out on the regular and have a healthier eating and hydration regimen, Have a weekly self love spa treatment.
3.) Get off the couch and get social!
The bar's and clubs are not for everybody and neither is swiping on Tinder but your love interest is not going to magically teleport into your bedroom or just ring your front door unless they are the mailman or lady. Go to the clubs and bars if you're okay with that, Join a gym, take a yoga class, whatever you have an interest in taking those classes ;Go to those kinds of events and so forth. IF there is a serious minded and tasteful site for singles that catches your eye try it out! The more you get yourself out there the better chances for great results and spell fruition.
4.) Your spell caster or the DIY spell is only a medium, the real power is in positive belief and you
Love yourself first, Constantly reinforce in your mind that you deserve all the love and happiness the universe has to offer, Do anything that makes you emotionally and mentally feel good, read positive books especially on Love and Self love, pray, meditate, take spiritual baths and smudge your house and self on the regular.Self work your spell caster tells you to do do so!