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You and I are living in an era like no other. Living in solitude, or being bottled up in the same space with friends or family with whom we might, or might not resonate, is making your relationships clear, crystal clear. Many of you are living with a narcissist, who is at the very core, are about what they can get, who they can use, and have a severe lack of empathy for yourself and others.
Narcissists live at the lower part of Maslow's Hierarchy of needs. They are concerned with their own needs and survival. Since 1964, with Schumann's Resonance, or Extremely Low Frequencies (ELF) bombarding the world you and I live in, frequencies that keep you and me at our base needs and having to work with more effort to climb to the peak of enlightenment. The experiments started with whales, dolphins, and porpoises. The studies were to determine the effect of ELF on their health and rate of propagation. All species on the planet are susceptible to ELF. It keeps you and me at a lower emotional state (unless you know how to counteract it), thus the increase in depression, anxiety, and narcissism since the 1960s.
There is a natural mineral that protects you from them, shungite, which can be worn as a pendant, pocket stone, or bracelet. ELF is part of the transition from the 4G to the 5G shift, as it can be transmitted via cell phone and cable satellites. This made for the perfect recipe for having multiple generations of narcissists in families, the political matrix, and in the workplace. A narcissist lacks empathy; they do not understand your point-of-you, nor do they generally care about your feelings unless it has a direct impact on them. If you are in love with a narcissist, you are the supply, or the person that they are using to feed their needs. If this sounds close to an energy vampire, it is. An energy vampire will often, though, not be aware they are draining another's the life force or energy. A narcissist IS mindful that they are using you to get what they need. It is only when their needs are met, that they will look to do things to meet yours.
It is also not uncommon to have the presence of addiction with the narcissist (alcohol, drugs, gambling, and even sexual). If you are in lockdown with a narcissist, you must spend time connecting with people that do have your best interest at heart every day. Connect to the relationships that are lovingly reciprocal, laugh, and share, until you can be together in person again.
Make sure that you have a safe space for you, and at any given point, have an exit strategy should the narcissist in your life start the blame and shame cycle with you. (if it weren't for you, my life would be happier. If it weren't for you, my career would be on track. You get the idea!) I advocate having at least three viable reasons to exit: I have a phone call to make I need to take care of a chore I have an online appointment to sign into.
There is a Spiritual regrouping taking place on our planet, you are either for humanity in unconditional love, or are by default likely to become less empathetic and letting fear and anxiety lower your healthy vibration. Going right back to Schumann's Resonance, you can combat the ELF through daily meditation practice, regular exercise, staying away from binge eating, drinking, and working on cultivating unconditional love and empathy for yourself and others.
If you are in lockdown with a narcissist, you must spend time connecting with people that do have your best interest at heart every day. Connect to the relationships that are lovingly reciprocal, laugh, and share, until you can be together in person again. Make sure that you have a safe space for you, and at any given point, have an exit strategy should the narcissist in your life start the blame and shame cycle with you. (if it weren't for you, my life would be happier. If it weren't for you, my career would be on track. You get the idea!) I advocate having at least three viable reasons to exit: I have a phone call to make, I need to take care of a chore or errand I have an online appointment to sign into.
The light and shadow are globally are fighting for the highest demographic. Stand for love and the love of all life on our planet. Stand for healing, truth (even if it is painful initially). Stand as your authentic self, and represent yourself honestly and sincerely.
Spirit is teaching each of us the value of life and what matters. Our connection to one another and Source. If you are an empath or intuitive living with or connected to a narcissist, please rethink your position, do you want to be in the same place in your life 5 or 10 years from now? The same fears, anxiety, uncertainty?
I have spent the past 25 years studying and working with people that feel trapped as the supply in a relationship with a narcissist. It often takes 8 - 10 times to actively working to leave to exit this toxic relationship successfully. Toxic relationships are much harder to leave because of the lowered self-esteem and the value placed upon you by your romantic partner. I have assisted countless women and men move on in their lives, only to find the richness and love they had longed for but had never achieved in their narcissistic relationships. It starts with you saying, no, and starting to love yourself enough to walk away. If there are children involved, it is especially critical that you take steps to help create children with healthy self-love and self-esteem. I share this from having walked away from a controlling narcissist. Yes, I own my part for having accepted it, even let them pull me down! After four failed rounds of couples counseling, with four different therapists, I picked myself up, and with my children, found the wonderful life that I now have. I have forgiven them and moved on, even wishing them well and that they would find the love they are seeking.
Yes, it did take me five times to leave them, finally, once and for all, remaining single for several years, until I was ready to date, and open my life up to love. My children are all successful adults now, and I look back, knowing that I would choose to leave all over again. What will you choose for your life? Please be looking for the follow up to this article on how to live with a narcissist, should you decide to stay. There are strategies you can employ for your survival.
Your life counts, you are loved, and I am blessed to have had this time together with each of you.
In Divine Truth and Love,
Psychic Shira
As an online psychic reader for many years, I have assisted many clients with love and relationship issues. One of my specialties is narcissism. I enjoy working with my clients and am blessed to work with them in Divine Energy. It can take time for people to transition out of relationships that have many psychic attachments. As a real psychic, I am here to assist you with gaining clarity and strength. Working with you in psychic online readings, I hope to help you move forward into a blessed life.