Spells are the same action and creation as affirmations. The difference is how the power is owned. Whereas a spell often seeks to override another person's free will, an affirmation recognizes that we each possess our strength. There are some concrete steps to creating a situation and drawing to you, that which has not stepped into your life yet.
1 - First, you must identify that which you do not want. As you create the list of what you have discovered that does not match you, you are clearing the way to connect with what does match you. Writing it all down will help you to clear out your subconscious. For example, if you have learned that loyalty is essential to you, you may write: I do not want a partner who will cheat on me.
2 - On the second piece of paper, take all of the items on the don't want list and write them in the affirmative. As the Universe only works in creation, it is vital to speak the language of the Universe. It is also essential to talk in current terms. For example, I am in the process of attracting a partner who chooses to be loyal and honest.
3 - Then narrow them down to the top 10 attributes that you know you are seeking from a partner. Be specific. If you state that you want a partner who is financially balanced, say precisely that. Many traits mean different things to different people. For example, I am in the process of attracting a financially balanced partner. This is much more specific than seeking a partner who makes good money, as that is a perspective and does not address the fact that a person can make a high level of income and still be in debt or manage their money poorly.
4 - Once you have the top 10 list, make sure that you are living in integrity with your requests. If you seek a financially balanced partner, you must be living in that frequency. If you desire a partner who is honest, faithful, and loyal, you must be living those traits as well. Are you seeking a partner who will add joy to your life, or are you finding someone who you think will rescue you from an experience that you are not living to the fullest? You must first be the person you seek. It is not that you need to find a person who is exactly like you, only a person that complements the balance that you are already living. The more that you create wholeness in your life, the easier it will be to attract a partner who is also balanced.
5 - Then put the list away. Review it every once in a while, but don't dwell on it. Your role is to request from the Universe what you have learned matches you, exist in that matching frequency and provide the Universe opportunities to have the person or situation enter into your life. If you are seeking a new partner, then join a new group, volunteer, give the Universe plenty of opportunities to bring someone into your life. Let go of the details, the time frame. It is only your job to claim what you desire and make sure that you are opening yourself up to possibilities.
6 - When you do go on dates, and you are starting to feel that the connection has potential, review your list. Make sure that you are saying no to further dates if you have already discovered that they do not match. You will find that the uNiverse will send you 5's, 6's, 7's, and so on to allow you to celebrate that you are getting closer. Strengthen the belief that you are worthy and deserving of what you have requested, by saying "No" to those that do not match. Keep in mind that each "No" takes you closer to a "Yes."
7 - Most importantly...enjoy the process. When you are in Joy, it is quite easy to manifest any person or situation that you desire. When you celebrate even the dud dates, your spirit will be excited about more dates (even the ones that are not fun) and will help you to attract more possibilities.
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