Sagittarius/Virgo
Sun Sign Compatibility
These two Sun signs are quite opposite and can learn from each other and grow. Sagittarius can share their free spirit to loosen up the perfectionist Virgo, and Sagittarius could learn the value in order. When these two come into their lives, it's more of a karmic relationship than one that is meant to last a long time.
There will always be conflict with friends and family from each partner's side. Sagittarius' friends will not understand the attraction to someone they see as stifling. Virgo's family will not understand why they are interested in someone so reckless. The attraction may also be very intense at first, due to the lessons needing to be learned.
Modality Compatibility
The mutable energy that each other brings to the relationship cancels out the energy needed to make it work. Even though both are flexible, they are not willing to change who they are to be with their loved one. Conflict and fighting are commonplace. Sagittarius will live in disarray and the Virgo will be displeased, as they are very organized and may even take on the task of housework, even if they don't live together.
Element Compatibility
This Fire sign and Earth sign can't merge in a healthy way. Sagittarius is too reactive for the Virgo who desires order and dependability to be happy. Sagittarius' element will feel too playful and childlike for the parent energy of the Virgo. There will be a struggle of power in this dynamic and their parenting styles will be drastically different, if they decide to have children.
Energetic Strengths
The strength in this relationship is kindness. Both have the ability to be kind to themselves, but need to lean into honesty to make that kindness mean something. Sagittarius' optimism will only go so far against the perfectionist Virgo before feeling defeated. Learning how to express appreciation will help both sides appreciate the other.
Energetic Challenges
The biggest obstacles in this relationship are unrealistic expectations. Sagittarius will never be the ideal partner that Virgo desires due to their own personality. Sagittarius will also need to learn how to be more responsible and more mindful, which goes against their core personality and values. Virgo will often feel unhappy and unappreciated in this relationship and Sagittarius will need to figure out if they really want this relationship.
How to Create Astrological Balance
In this relationship, Virgo will have to do a majority of the work to keep it going. Sagittarius is too reckless in behavior and word choices to keep the Virgo happy. These two make better friends than lovers. The only way for these two to have true balance is for the Sagittarius to become more mature and responsible, which is unlikely to happen.
