4 Confusing Reasons a Sibling Rivalry is a Blessing for Psychic Karma

It is not unusual for siblings not to get along while growing up, and sometimes that rivalry can continue onward into adulthood. Our siblings can be a challenge for us as they are the ones who we deep down feel that they should know us the best, but are too often disappointed that this reality is far from the truth. We can grow up in the same household and become entirely different people.

When your sibling is so different from you, you may spend a lot of your life asking, "who is this stranger I am related to?" or, "how can we even be related at all?" But, are these questions a curse or a mixed blessing we've yet to ponder thoroughly?

It is a karmic lesson for both of you.

If either of you has a difficult time understanding that Universally we are all brothers and sisters, then the sibling rivalry that you are experiencing may be a karmic lesson for both of you.

When siblings fight and feel animosity towards each other, it often spills out into our relationships with our friends. Sibling rivalry doesn't need to be toxic to be a karmic lesson. It can just be rocky and uncomfortable, tugging, and pulling at your life choices and passions. Chances are the two of you have entirely different personalities and possibly different sets of values, which may be hard for either of you to reconcile if you grew up in the same household. Maybe one of you believes in psychics, and the other wonders are psychics real. All of us have unique life experiences, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't love and respect each other all the same. Sometimes the hardest lesson to learn is to allow others to be who they are without our interference or judgment. We may spend lifetimes trying to learn this.

You are Soulmates learning how to balance.

In some sibling relationships, the two of you may be soulmates. The rivalry you may be experiencing may stem, setting unrealistic expectations for one another on either side. These expectations will create an imbalance in your relationship as siblings. It is not uncommon for siblings to compare each other, but the feelings and intensity may be more significant when both of you are soulmates. The highs and lows each of you experience as a result the imbalance will teach you both the need for self-care, distance, and finding healthy ways to channel your negative emotions and feelings into something other than each other. After we have learned to have a balanced relationship with each other, this peace will naturally roll over into all other areas of your life.

Once the sibling rivalry has settled down, you will notice how your other relationships have changed. There will be ones that fade away, and new, healthier friendships will take their place. This harmony is the Universe's signs that you have learned how to balance and are now attracting the right frequency of people in your life. The same will go for your sibling.

It helps both you experience personal growth

There is little doubt that having a sibling rivalry will make you grow as a person. You may not feel that way at the beginning of your life, but you will feel like the both of you become older and wiser. You will learn how to be kind, be patient, and be tolerant. You will learn to accept other people's life choices. You will discover that everyone makes mistakes, including yourself. You will learn the necessity of forgiveness and how to express your anger. You will also learn how not to behave around people you love and how you should never be treated yourself by others.

You will both learn.

Both of you learn the value of unconditional love

The value in this rivalry is at the heart of learning the lesson of unconditional love. This purest form of love stems from a foundation of healthy boundaries and respect. Most people don't grow into this overnight with anyone. It is a lifelong process and for some of us, for many lifetimes. Unconditional love is being able to surrender your power to control someone, and the beliefs that you can, and just allowing them to be as they are. Acceptance is necessary for this to happen, and in a sibling rivalry, we will do this dance and struggle our whole lives until we let go.

You may find yourself reaching out to real psychics many times for psychic online readings for insights and to bend an ear for your daily struggles. You may also find comfort in learning Tarot and consulting the cards as your own Tarot Card reader. Whatever you decide to do, just know that the Universe supports you during your struggles. All is for learning and growing and evolving.