Are You Obsessed With Being in Love And Talking With Psychics About It?
If you find yourself obsessively working with psychics and having tarot readings for love continuously, day after day, you may be obsessed with finding love. Sometimes this obsession can be temporary as we go in and out of our needs and emotions until we center and discover what we are looking for or do inner work to better ourselves. When the continual need for psychic readers online is only for the sole purpose of our romantic relationships, you may want to review what is driving that addiction.
When we circle around the same idea of what love is and should be, we don't allow real love to blossom. We prohibit our growth and evolution as much as we do hinder a possible relationship. If you find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns and find that these thoughts are at the center of every moment of your day, then you may want to step back and get perspective.
Love addiction can also have negative consequences in your life when it becomes out of control. It can create serial relationships where abusive elements become more and more aggressive with each connection. It can create financial problems. It can also create issues that are legal and affect your ability to maintain gainful employment.
Sometimes we will repeat the same lessons until we have learned what we need to learn. There are times when what we need to learn is to allow ourselves time to heal over past trauma. Most of the time, when we are fueled by addictive love cycles, we are trying to free ourselves from old wounds. Trying to discover our self-worth and a sense of security in the arms of someone else will only lead to hardship in our relationships with others. What we need to do is spend time working on releasing those trapped emotions and dealing with the pain of vivid memories so we can move forward into healthy relationships. We need to find our sense of worth from within ourselves and not from outside of ourselves.
Love can be a rush, especially at the very beginning of a relationship. It releases a lot of endorphins and gives us a sense of high and elation. It can feel fantastic! The excitement fuels us, but we may also be motivated by the dramas it can create. There are other ways we can receive endorphin rushes that are healthier for us, such as exercise, laughing, and meditation. Love will eventually even out and become balanced. Still, if you are one of those people who loves being in love, you will ultimately get bored when the relationship plateaus and that is not very good for both you and your person of interest. It can also make you withdraw into romantic fantasizing that leads you away from relationships entirely.
Instead of reaching out to real psychics for a tarot reading on love, consider having a psychic online reading for what is going on with you and how to release yourself from past trauma. Shift your mindset from wanting into knowing and understanding. Once you can figure out what is going on with you internally, you can eventually step into the process of creating loving relationships with partners that are the perfect match for you. They can tap into your past, present, and future, and tell you what is the best way forward for you and give you insights on the best methods for releasing your trauma.
We all want to feel loved. We also want to feel secure in our relationships. When we are obsessed with finding love, we are running towards feeling safe, but oddly enough, we are actively doing the exact opposite. Obsessive love often drives people away as it doesn't make anyone you are obsessing with feel safe around you. If you are always in relationships where your person of interest feels like they are fleeing from you, you may want to stop and take some time to review what is happening. Sometimes we sabotage our chance with happiness without knowing it, but a relationship built on obsession would never lead to real love anyways. We must heal those parts of ourselves that are creating any kind of obsessive cycle before we can be in a successful relationship with someone else.
There is nothing wrong with seeking out guidance for love and relationship with psychic sources as we all need advice from time to time. If the pattern continues for longer than six months, it may be time to do some inner spiritual work and work with a psychic keen on helping you resolve past trauma. Your Spirit Guides and Angel Guides are always there for you. There are also counselors and therapists who can also assist you with diving deep and doing the work that will help you feel whole. Learn to love yourself wholly and accept all that you are, including your past, before being in a loving relationship with another person.
