Have you wondered why when you try try try, it still seems to fail fail fail? : Perspective from Psychic Shidonii

You've sought connections, self-help, books, seminars, classes, done research, talked with folks, the whole shebang. We know the basic concepts of achieving our goals and being the happiest people we can be. So.... why is it that when you try, that things are still failing, collapsing, or seeming consistently negative?

I can genuinely help you with this! All I need is an open mind and heart and the chance actually to digest this message. It's very, very simple and I guarantee you've heard it time and time again. We know it to be true. We know that it IS. However, when someone says they're sorry, but they don't mean it, the word is nothing more than letters on a page or different sounds past someone's lips. Keep that very much in mind.

We are amazing beings. Aware energy in people suits set off on a brilliant adventure. Believe it or not, we weren't meant to be miserable. Yes, we are expected to learn lessons and grow, but that doesn't mean we have to suffer unnecessarily. We don't have to suffer at our own hands. Most people don't understand that, although someone on their journey can struggle, and it affects those around them, the issues still rest deep inside us. Those issues are fear, doubt, and frustration. There are many negative emotions, but those sum it up for me.

These emotions stem from us. We see, experience, go through awful things. But we have the gift of choice. We can CHOOSE how things affect us and how we react to them. This is a life problem solution. It goes hand in hand with genuine...GENUINE belief. I'm not talking about pep talks. I'm not talking about trying to lie to ourselves and make ourselves believe something that we genuinely don't. We have programmed responses to "solve" what's going wrong. I'm going to say this doesn't work out for anyone safely.

We have two solutions now.

1.) We have the gift of choice

2.)Through genuine belief, we can form our lives the way we want

Ooh, I've skipped lightspeed, and hyper jumped into pure crazy! Well, I used to be afraid to share messages but had I let that control me, I wouldn't be in the fantastic place I am, connecting to beautiful people that I do. At one point, I had to stop and say..."This is ridiculous. I AM good enough, I DO have the ability, and because of it, I will be able to do what I love, and have it work out great for me." Well, I am proof that it works.

I explain what true belief feels like by having someone imagine an argument between themselves and someone. Perhaps an argument where they know they are right. The argument may go for a while, but you are not dissuaded by anything. You just KNOW. It's that feeling, that actual belief....knowing without effort, that makes pure magic happen in our lives. Our higher power, God, the Universe, whatever you would like to call it always has the best plan for us. We just think we know better.

Some of you that have blessed your connection with me have heard me say my explanation between how I see my conscious brain and my subconscious mind. My conscious mind is like a two-year-old, a two-year-old that I have let in the driver's seat of my (life) car. I should be the driver, my instinct, my knowing, my feelings. But no, instead, I am content to stick a very inept version of me take control of the wheel. (And yet, I still wondered why things weren't going right) I ignored what I genuinely KNEW and traded it for a poor suppositional substitute.

Here's how to have your life shift for the better....to shift it in your favor :

-Release doubt. Doubt is a dealbreaker. It removes your ability to believe something is going to happen honestly.

(Positive example - "It's the craziest thing, I just thought I would see a purple duck in the road." It sounds bonkers, but after you have that thought, you drive by a purple bathtub duckie lying in the road. So it wasn't a real purple duck, or something else, but, it was exactly as you thought it.

(Negative example- "What's wrong with me? I just thought I'd see a purple duck on the road!" Negative words, harmful intentions..you have successfully shut down your inner voice. Say you pass that same rubber duckie but are entirely blind to it since you have told yourself it's not possible)

-Know and Believe. When I say all things are possible, I cannot emphasize it enough. Its the truth. If you were given a million dollars, would you care about the details, or that you were gifted with abundance?

-Pay attention to how you think/speak...what words do you use? Do you say "can't, won't, fail, I am horrible at, I can't eat that, I will gain weight"? Have you wondered how that negatively affects you? It's removing yourself from potential. You deserve the best, so use words like "win, I'm great at, I'm improving on..." etc. These words operate on the intent you put behind them.

-Affirm and speak in the present tense! This is how you learn to KNOW things. This morning for me was rough. It was. I had to stop myself in my negative thoughts and words, and said aloud: "I am safe, healthy, happy and loved." After a few times, the morning shifted....or was it me? ;) I changed myself, and everything moved around me.

I say this to anyone who reads this that I was a colossal perpetrator of me. I proverbially shot myself in the foot time and time again by my thoughts, words, and inactions. Whining and feeling sad for myself perpetuated my bad vibe, and of course, others around me had to deal with that too. Be the best you for you. Once you have done that, the people you want and need in your life, and the things you want and need in your life will come to you almost effortlessly.

I offer this as a challenge to your beautiful souls. Challenge yourself to be better for YOU. Not for anyone else. This is no one's rules but your own. Set limitations for negativity, open your doors to positivity, and let the "AH-HA" moment flow.

May you be Blessed in knowing what a Blessing you are, and never a moment lost to guilt and regret.

Love and Light,

Psychic Shidonii

My connection to people and energy has been ever-present and is a gift given through me, for you. If you are feeling lost and need direction, I am the real psychic for you! I have years of experience as an online psychic reader and psychic medium with years of experience to help you with all your psychic needs. I am also a Reiki Master / Teacher and regularly work to assist in clearing all kinds of dis-ease. When in doubt, call upon me as you psychic reader, and I will support, enlighten, and help guide you to a better existence with your online psychic reading.