Romantic Crisis During Social Distancing : Advice from Psychic Shira
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We are living in challenging times, with the stay-at-home orders and mandatory social distancing in place. If you are dating and not living together, this can bring waves of anxiety, panic, uncertainty, and fear that your relationship will not make it pas social distancing. It is also true for the couples that are in lockdown together.
If you have been experiencing difficulties before Stay-at-Home. you are either going to realize that you are committed to working it out or that you have reached an impasse and no longer feel motivated to stay together. Economic reasons, after you and I have all come through this, will no longer have the same level of priority as represented in the past.
I have received countless calls with the following list of questions: If he/she loves me, why aren't they messaging me back? (realize that it depends on how often you are messaging, and how meaningful the content. If you are texting, "hi how are you?" throughout the day, you are likely to get only a few responses)
Why are they posting these things on Social Media? Is it to make me feel bad? (It is not! Some people are using Social Media to offset fear and uncertainty. They are not out to get you!)
Will they see me as soon as the travel bans are lifted? (It depends on whether or not they need to return to work, check-in on their families, and generally regroup after the shutdown. Patience is key here?)
Why do I keep thinking of my ex? Can I not seem to get them out of my mind? (when is the last time that you were still and had time for all of the thoughts and reflective thoughts to catch up to your conscious self? It has likely been a very long time! You are finally starting to clean the house, take inventory, and see where you are in your evolution).
Is my boyfriend/girlfriend missing me every moment of the day, thinking of me, longing for me? (they are in the same boat as you are in terms of reflecting on their lives or possibly even working from home! Let go of the need to be though to every second, and cultivate some of your dreams while you have the time).
My romantic partner is in the military; why are they not messaging me every opportunity they get? (They are resting and restoring themselves. Our essential personal are pulling double duty, and have to take the downtime given them. If they do communicate with their parents, it is because they are their parents. Work out a way to have the parents' relay information to you so that you do not worry as well.)
If he/she loved me, they would do things to let me know they miss me! What is stopping them? (If you have tunnel vision, and your focus is only romance, you will find yourself likely disappointed. Your romantic partner is likely to be very different in their communication and validation skills. They also are do not read minds. TELL them what you are needing and wanting.)
Will they miss me and us, will this bring us back together? (Possibly, if you give them the chance to process through their feelings at their pace. If it seems like your process more quickly, perhaps you are not a good match with slower energy).
Will this change my husband/wife's mind regarding a family? (If the two of you can become strong together, possibly! You are in the crucible to either grow together or realize that there are too many differences).
Take your relationship out from under the microscope and process your feelings first. Find out where you are, how you feel, what you want, how you want to get there, who you want to be with on this journey, and start cleaning your emotional house.
Spirit is giving us this time to assess our lives. While you are at it, ask yourself, "What can I do to help my family, friends, community, and neighbors." If you have elderly neighbors or family, call them, ask if they need anything, and make this time for them a little easier.
If they were isolated before, imagine how they must be feeling now. Lonely, scared, frightened? How would you feel if you were in their place, use your empathy and compassion! Doing this will ease you out of solely being focused on romance, and you will have done some good and feel happy that you were able to help when you look back on this time in earth's history.
If your love is meant to be, with you both being on the same page through self-reflection, you will be together again. Be honest with each other, sharing how you are feeling, what your concerns are, and look at strategies for growth.
If you see genuine loving interchange, that is wonderful, congratulations! If you feel like you are the one doing the majority of the work, rather than lock that pattern, express this and be prepared to open your life up to someone that will offer you a loving and genuine return on your investment.
I love you all very much and am here for you with messages from Spirit. You and I will get through this together by staying grounded, loving, calm, compassionate, empathetic, and by being supportive.
In Divine Love and Truth,
Psychic Shira
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