Opening The Doors To Love : Insights from Psychic Shira
Bright Greetings,
Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. This is our time together to celebrate love and connection. Let's talk about unavailable people.
My Spiritual Support Team is consistently direct in their guidance for you. I want to share with you my professional training in the realm of relationships: Certification in Bodywork Counseling Certified in NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming) Ordained Reverend for 19 years, Bachelors Degree, in Psychology Certifications in Acutonics and Vibrations Medicine Former advocate with the District Attorneys office for domestic violence On the Board of Directors for Children and Family Charities Certifications in Non-Verbal Communications Somatic Specialist for over 15 years I have counseled and married a considerable number of couples, none of whom have undergone divorce or separation.
I am happy to report they are more pleased now than the day they married. It remains my policy only to agree to marry the couples that demonstrate an all-in presentation. I believe in love and family and support this in my work and lifestyle. Now onto the meat of today's blog!
Being in love (or being obsessed) with someone who is patently unavailable is heartbreaking and erodes your self-esteem and physical vitality. It is a frustrating reality, seeing someone that you feel you have curated genuine feelings for, talking to and attracted to everyone but you.
You may go through the act of justifying. This is happening:
He/she is having a challenging time at work.
They are immature emotionally, but I believe they can grow.
They occasionally do text or call me.
They are going to leave their husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend.
They are in the closet and will realize the truth regarding their sexuality and choose me.
They are still hurting from the last relationship, but I know they will choose me when they are ready to date!
They have commitment issues.
They were raised in an abusive home situation.
They are getting dating other people out of their system so they can be with me.
They have so much potential.
They work with me and do not have dual relationships.
Being interested or in love with unavailable people is a painful process. You may fantasize about your life together, the conversations you will have, the vacations, the beautiful home, or even having kids together. A relationship is more than in your mind than it is a pragmatic reality. When someone is interested in pursuing a relationship with you, giving it all they have, you WILL know it.
Dear ones, you are worth so much more!
Loving someone who chooses to ignore your feelings for any duration is not worth your time. If you have been hooked on the same person for several years to no avail, do you really want to give them any more of your life? Or do you want to open yourself to finding and being with someone that shows up for you, regardless of the circumstances?
In my many years of working with couples, I have been blessed to see commitment, love, fidelity, compassion, humor, and empathy. I have counseled couples whom I knew within the first few minutes would not be back to firm up wedding plans. Fortunately, one of them walked away before making two lives and two families unhealthy and unhappy.
You can find real love, once you let go of the fantasy. It is not dissimilar to imagining what it would be like to be the partner of a celebrity when you had no common circle or interests. You can imagine living in the 6 million dollar mansion, traveling the world together, and dreaming of a life that is only in your mind. You can begin to ask Spirit to help you surrender your old idea of "the one" so you can actually find them.
Let your Angels and Guides open you to something fulfilling, joyful, and real. Let go of the script that you have been reading and editing the majority of your life. Give yourself permission to find real love! If you are having difficulty moving past feelings for someone, please seek counseling, hypnosis, or a modality to liberate you.
Your beautiful life is now, not somewhere in the future. You can find the one, but they may not be the one you set your sights on! Open yourself to seeing the possibilities.
The Universe is here to provide and support.
If you meet someone new and want to know the true potential, please give me or one of the fantastic psychic readers at Meet Your Psychic.
It is such a pleasure to hold space for you and witness the positive changes in your life during our psychic readings.
Thank you for sharing this time. I love you, and I believe in you.
In Divine Truth and Love,
Psychic Shira
Shira has been in the intuitive arts for over 45 years and holds certifications in (to name a few): Vibrational Healing, Tarot, Reiki (Master Teacher in several systems), Animal Reiki/healing, Bodywork Counseling (Reiki + Process Work), Matrix Energetix, and holds several degrees, including a Master's Degree in Health Care Administration. She is gifted in Dream Interpretation and offers crystal clear insight into all areas of the human perspective. Shira offers psychic mediumship and has been connecting to life-after-life since the age of 5. She provides loving, direct, and compassionate online psychic readings. Shira believes that your ability to manifest is unlimited.
