Romantic Partnership as Lightworker: The importance of being synergy
I have been asked to write about finding romance as a Healer and a Lightworker. This is a subject that comes up in conversation with other Intuitives and Energy Healers frequently.
Finding a romantic partner that is at a similar vibrational level, who understands your need for autonomy, and supports you in your processes (as you support them), is the Healer's greatest personal challenge.
Being an Intuitive is a lifestyle, not an occupation. It requires time to yourself for contemplation, proper rest, a drama free environment (your home is your nest!), self-care routines such as salt baths, time with like-minded friends and colleagues, and a deep dedication to the path of the Healer. Finding a romantic partner that understands the need for autonomy, with it's changing schedules and being available for people seeking assistance, may feel like you are in a no win situation. It is little wonder that the majority of Healers choose to have their beloved pets versus a human companion! Animals love and accept unconditionally, and are inherently connected to source.
You can find love, Dear Ones, but it necessitates holding the same high standard that you do for your work. For if you are dating someone that is not on the same path, and they lack empathy and compassion, then you are likely to adopt the same lack of sensitivity.
Meditate upon what YOU are seeking in the idea partner (this is my list! I offer the same in return):
Compassionate
Understanding
Sees their Divinity and accountability as a priority
Gentle of Spirit
Strength of character and spirit
Loves unconditionally
Keeps their promises, but does not make them lightly.
Healthy boundary
Ethical
Faithful
Generous
Refrains from keeping a tally
Strong work ethic
Can accomplish something from start to finish
Loves and accepts my friends and family
Loves to laugh
Always speaks kindly of others
Appreciates the simple things in life
Clean and sober
Well educated
Articulate
Humble
Finds something to be grateful for in every situation
Has smile and laugh lines on their face
Nurturing
Responsible
Fun-loving
Makes time as a couple/family a priority
Sees the household tasks and day-to-day necessities as shared equally
Loves music, dancing, live theatre, and art museums
In the healing arts
Savors the adventures in life that you have together
Sees each day as a gift
Healthy and in sync with the staying healthy
Free and available status
Free from any baggage of the past
Celebrates life with you, refrains from being competitive
Can talk about anything easily, calmly, and kindly
You are best friends
Requests never demands
Open contract, does not require marriage
Once you have created your own list (this can be a process over a few weeks or months), place it on one of your home altars.
While what you are asking for may feel impossible Dear Ones, it is not! I did meet someone that met each and every item on my list. They were an unexpected gift from the Universe, and I thank my lucky stars that we are in each other's life. I knew that if I added an age or focused on the physical description, that I was limiting Divine Energy in meeting my soulmate. When I did meet them, they were not at all what I expected them to look like, but better than I could have imagined!
Stand your ground, Dear Ones, and do not compromise in being with the right person as a healer! Your home environment really is your nest where you recharge. The right romantic partner can bring a love and dimension to your life that makes you a better Intuitive and help create that joyful home!
I love you and I empower you to raise the best version of yourself each day, Dear Ones!
In Divine Truth,
Psychic Shira
