What To Do When Your Signs Aren’t Compatible

Ever fretted that your Sun sign isn't compatible with our person of interest? It can be a huge stressor for those of us who take our astrology very seriously, but sometimes it helps to take a step back and see the big picture. Astrology is a tool that can help us with managing our relationships and our lives but should never be the defining tool for a variety of reasons.

Astrology can also be more complicated than we realize. A psychic keen on helping you with your astrology chart will be able to assist you in navigating tricky horoscopes and determining their true meaning. Our charts can be different within our own Sun sign with various factors shifting the dates and times we are born and in what year.

Astrology, tarot readings online, even physic readings are just pieces to a much larger puzzle. When our Sun signs are supposedly not compatible, we need to take a step back and look at everything before throwing in the towel and walking away from something that might be the best relationship of your entire life.

Are you in this for the long haul?

If this is just a short-term relationship, then maybe it doesn't entirely matter that your signs aren't compatible. Relationships help us learn more about ourselves as well as connect with people. This relationship could be the stepping stone the both of you need to be ready for the real thing, so don't overthink it if it's just a passing connection. Some relationships are seasonal but still have value and meaning.

Challenges can be rewarding.

When we are in relationships that challenge how we communicate and behave, we grow and become better people. We learn patience. We learn kindness. We also learn the worst parts about ourselves when we are challenged. When that is revealed to us, we can choose to change and evolve into better people.

Sometimes our hardest relationships can be the most rewarding as they teach us the value of being loved and genuinely loving another person. Don't let heartache deter you from moving forward or put off from meeting someone who challenges you. These are the relationships that show us who we really are and help us to become all that we can be.

There is strength in exercising your free will!

Let the stars be damned and just go for it! Not everything has to be laid out for you with the alignment of the stars. Sometimes asking the Universe for what we want and just going for it is what we need to make a relationship work. If you want it as bad as your person of interest, you two will work out any conflict and come up with ways to combat how you are likely to have disagreements and challenges.

One of our lessons in life, or in our series of reincarnations, may be to learn to set our path no matter what we are being told. Forging our own destiny and becoming our own person against all the odds is not just revolutionary. It is how we evolve into better, stronger beings.

Use your intuition.

Does the relationship feel right? Then maybe that is all you need to know. When we feel we have our lives planned out for us, we will sometimes accept too easily what we are told. If it feels right, then maybe it is even if other signs are saying that it isn't. You won't know if you don't try to tap into your intuition. What does your heart say?

Ask your Spirit Guides.

Sometimes our Spirit Guides hold the answers we are seeking. We may not know the reasons we are with our person of interest or feel the urge to pursue them, but there may be larger forces at play. Doing a tarot card reading by ourselves and asking what our Spirit Guides see for us can give us a better sense if someone is right for us rather than just relying on our Sun signs. They may understand the lessons at play and the value in the obstacles we both may need to overcome. Our Spirit Guides will always have our best interest at heart and may even be able to help us understand our Sun sign's strengths and weaknesses better than we can!

Seek out guidance from an astrologer.

Many psychics offer astrology insights and can help you dive deep into your compatibility. Just because it says that you are most likely not to be a compatible sign doesn't mean you are excluded from everyone. Your person of interest might be an exception to the rule. Wouldn't that be a treat! Reach out to a real psychic who specializes in astrology to find out with a tarot reading for love and see if it is in the cards and stars for you.